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post #196 of 202 (permalink) Old 03-16-2017, 10:51 AM
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What exactly are they then? And why do they 'think' as a group? (All swimming one way).

I know they are not babies, but there is still 'potential' that they will become one once they find an egg!
Once there was a sperm named Bob. When all the other sperm were just swimming around, Bob was doing sprints and lifting weights. One day, all the other sperms asked him, "Why don't you just swim around like us?" Bob replied, with a smirk, "Well, when the time comes, I'm gonna be the first one there." The others told him it was just destiny, but he said it wasn't. So, the day finally came when they were called upon. They were swimming along when Bob pulled ahead of the rest. Suddenly he stopped and turned around and headed back. The others asked him why he turned around and he said, "Back up boys, it's a BLOW JOB!"
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lastly, cum shots - I'm not even sure what this means. I cum every time I have sex as I'm sure pretty much every man does. so I'm not sure what this even means.
A cumshot is to a facial as a rectangle is to a square. One is always the other but the other is not always the one.
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That's a little unusual. What happens if you finish her with oral first? Sure she doesn't leave you 'hanging' so to speak? Or 69?
Maybe she's freaked out by sperm and perhaps is scared that she is expected to swallow it or do something unusual with it. Have you discussed why she won't do it?

The word "degrading" seems to carry a lot of baggage with it. It doesn't necessarily need to be a negative, in sexual context. A bit like classifying spanking as domestic abuse.


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Lol, none of the above!

She swallows every time. Has never not swallowed. (I also don't care if she does or not, TBH).

She's multi-multi orgasmic, so she's never really 'done'

Yes, I agree with you about the wording. I don't think she feels it's degrading, per se, just that it's not something she wants to do on it's own, by itself. Just no interest She's not a giver.

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That bolded part above is such a good point. Have you ever phrased it to her this way?

I think this also goes back to some of the posts by @inmyprime. Trust is such a big factor in sex, particularly rough/bdsm style sex. A woman's choice to be vulnerable and engage her partner in what some would describe as 'degrading' sex acts requires a lot of trust. It would also help explain why its difficult for women like myself to perform right after big disagreements. They temporarily chip away at the woman's trust in the man.
I have, yes. But she's not one to talk about past experiences, so it's pointless. She also hates comparing relationships (ie. her past experiences with her current, and mine as well). Whatever I know about her past relationship experience, she's volunteered.

I don't believe it's me she doesn't trust. Just that perhaps past experiences involving standalone BJ's have left a bad taste in her mouth - no pun intended... Far too many men expect this sort of thing from their partners, and/or try to get them to do it, or otherwise pout when they don't get BJ's (or whatever). Given that many women just don't have the interest or drive to give regular standalone BJ's in the first place (yet may not be seriously against doing so), giving them this pressure, or ultimatum, or "you don't really care about me" song and dance sure as hell doesn't help.

My ex wife (before she was unable to physically give oral sex - TMJ, lockjaw) did on a fairly regular basis. She had no real desire to do so, other than "for me". I don't recall ever asking her, though I'm sure I did once or twice. But much more often than not, it was her choice. Just something for me. Some women really want to give oral because they like it AND they like to please their partner. Some give it because it's no skin off their back and it makes their partner happy. And some hate it from the get-go. Others, like my wife I believe, have had it ruined for them by ******* partners. If she hated giving oral, she wouldn't be doing it during actual sex, either. But she does, and she genuinely gets right into it and seems to actually enjoy it. There are times where I don't want to finish that way and try to stop it, only to hear her mumble "nuh uh" and go even harder. So, she clearly enjoys it at these times. Just not on it's own, ever.

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No I would not have guessed that you stopped dating her . Not even trying some alternatives? Like choking her with only one hand? Geez that's rough (no pun intended).
You need to lay off the pron.
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Unicorn Cupcake, you're a guy aren't you?
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From a guy who tried all of the above I would never ask my gf to try a facial,I've done it with past gfs but not it's not something I want to do with someone special to me.As for anal,lube is your friend in this situation.
You say your sex life has become dull and boring so why don't YOU spice it up.A few toys,role play,grooming each other can work wonders.
My own personal favourite is the geisha girl role play but that's just me.
Role playing is freaking hawt!!!
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