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post #16 of 202 (permalink) Old 03-12-2017, 03:04 PM
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Re: Do any men NOT enjoy facials, anal and cum shots?

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If your so doesn't mind facials then try this.It is a bit rude.
If you are taking her from behind just as you are about to shoot pull out and spit on her back,when she turns around give it to her in the face.
Then run.
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If your so doesn't mind facials then try this.It is a bit rude.
If you are taking her from behind just as you are about to shoot pull out and spit on her back,when she turns around give it to her in the face.
Then run.
I wouldn't even hate that.
Apart from the running away. Own it.
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My husband and I have always had pretty normal and tame sexual appetites and up until recently I wasn't bothered by it. Lately, however, our sex life just seems so stale and boring.

He's never asked to give me a facial, anal or cum shot, but I don't mind any of these things too much so I figured that would be a good way to spice things up, right? Wrong. He doesn't seem interested in any of them and I confess it's making my feel extremely unattractive and undesirable.

I always thought men liked to do these things and I'm a little paranoid that he DOES want to do these things, just not wit me. I mean, how many men DON'T want to give a money shot now and then? What is it about me that makes the idea of these things so unappealing?

After months of playfully telling him to stick it in my ass we had a few failed (but fun attempts) at anal. I don't detest it, but I need to be drunk for it to be enjoyable and successful. I'm not saying I need to be drunk to have sex with my husband. No. But when I'm all done up and we've had a night out I tend to be in the mood more and I think that's a fair assessment for most women.

I hope we're not experiencing that Madonna/***** complex in which the thought of cuming on my face turns him off, but on some twentysomething it's appealing because I'm his wife and she's of no importance. Maybe that's a stretch, I don't know... His response and lack of interest just doesn't seem normal. I don't think he's cheating, but I think he's just a man... And men want these things, don't they?

Do any of you NOT like to do these things? If so, why?

Your hubby is a very lucky man but clueless to the sexual adventurousness you want to do with him.

Most guys would kill for a lady like yourself.

Into anal, facial, cum shot, adventurous sex, WOW.

Were are more ladies like yourself???

I wish Mrs.CuddleBug was into those things and more adventurous sex, but she is conservative LD. Basically, like your hubby.

You are HD and he is more LD.

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I wouldn't even hate that.
Apart from the running away. Own it.
How far could he even run with no pants?
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Into anal, facial, cum shot, adventurous sex, WOW.

Were are more ladies like yourself???
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When she realises you spat on her.
I was asking why do it, not why run away.
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Your hubby is a very lucky man but clueless to the sexual adventurousness you want to do with him.

Most guys would kill for a lady like yourself.

Into anal, facial, cum shot, adventurous sex, WOW.

Were are more ladies like yourself???

I wish Mrs.CuddleBug was into those things and more adventurous sex, but she is conservative LD. Basically, like your hubby.

You are HD and he is more LD.
I don't think he IS LD. IF I could check his porn history (although he insists he doesn't watch it) I'm confident he'd search the stuff I'm talking about.
I feel like he does want to... I Just don't believe a 30 year old man doesn't... It's like he doesn't want to do it with me..

He IS a pretty low key. conservative almost boring individual, though. He always has been. It's starting to become an issue NOW and I don't know why...
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Don't you worry he's lying to you? Like he doesn't want to tell you when he's secretly masturbating to the idea of doing it to someone? I guess I should have put this in the Men's Club... I'm more interested in their honest opinion. Not women who've been "told" one thing...
Absolutely not. If I was afraid he was lying to me about it, then there would be a LOT more to be worrying about in our relationship. But, I have also been told that my husband is quite rare, anyway. He is one if those "odd men" who doesn't m masturbate, either. It isn't a matter of being "told" something, either. It is observation, and truly knowing my husband.

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True, all opinions are welcome, I gues I just feel like he's LYING to me. Like he actually does want those things and is too shy, proud, etc. to actually admit it?
I understand some consider it disrpectful to people importance. Wives. That's what has me paranoid. He does want to do these things, just not to me.
Did you ever think of ASKING him why he days he doesn't like these things/has no interest? And did it ever occur to you that he sees it as disrespectful to the woman he loves, THEREFORE, the idea repulses him, regardless? Why not just tell him you want to spice things up and are open to ideas... and you BOTH have the option to veto things that are too far outside your comfort zone.

Tbh, your response to me made me bristle. Why? Because the way you replied insinuated that I don't really know my husband, and that my knowledge of what he likes and doesn't like is insignificant. I think that your paranoia regarding what he has stated he does not want to do should be addressed, first. You have this preconceived idea that "all men like XYZ". That is not at all the case, and it would probably help you to figure out why you don't believe your husband.

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I don't think he IS LD. IF I could check his porn history (although he insists he doesn't watch it) I'm confident he'd search the stuff I'm talking about.
I feel like he does want to... I Just don't believe a 30 year old man doesn't... It's like he doesn't want to do it with me..
He said he's not into it and yet you're confident that he is.

Why such a lack of trust in his honesty?

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He IS a pretty low key. conservative almost boring individual, though. He always has been. It's starting to become an issue NOW and I don't know why...
This is the real problem. The two of you are not sexually compatible. This is somewhere around the top third reason for failure of relationships. I think "lack of trust" is number two.
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I don't think he IS LD. IF I could check his porn history (although he insists he doesn't watch it) I'm confident he'd search the stuff I'm talking about.
I feel like he does want to... I Just don't believe a 30 year old man doesn't... It's like he doesn't want to do it with me..

He IS a pretty low key. conservative almost boring individual, though. He always has been. It's starting to become an issue NOW and I don't know why...

Maybe we should swap spouses?

Have you tried dressing up? Cosplay?

Have you snooped into what he views?

I agree. A 30 year old man should be a horn dawg, no question.

It's called sexual mismatch. One spouse is HD adventurous and the other spouse is more conservative, almost boring and more LD.

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I don't think he IS LD. IF I could check his porn history (although he insists he doesn't watch it) I'm confident he'd search the stuff I'm talking about.
I feel like he does want to... I Just don't believe a 30 year old man doesn't... It's like he doesn't want to do it with me..

He IS a pretty low key. conservative almost boring individual, though. He always has been. It's starting to become an issue NOW and I don't know why...
Right here. You think he is lying about porn viewing, too? Smh. Another thing that not every man has any interest in. Note, I am not saying that they have *never seen*, but that they have no interest in it, so choose mot to look at it. You have yourself so convinced tgat he is lying to you about all this. I honestly don't think he is the problem, here. I do, however, disagree with CB's assessment that your husband is LD, too. I think it is more tgat he has no interest in the "odd" sexual activities. (I put it in quotes because to some, it is not odd, to others, it is. My husband is 35. He wasn't interested in any of that when we met when he was 17, and he still has no interest in it. So, it is true. There truly ARE men who have zero interest in those things.

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Maybe we should swap spouses?

Have you tried dressing up? Cosplay?

Have you snooped into what he views?

I agree. A 30 year old man should be a horn dawg, no question.

It's called sexual mismatch. One spouse is HD adventurous and the other spouse is more conservative, almost boring and more LD.

Sex boosts testosterone and us guys just feel great with that energy.
CB, lack of interest in facials and the other things does not mean he is uninterested/virtually uninterested in sex. It means he has no interest in certain ACTS. You can spice things up, and you absolutely can be a "horn dawg" and not be interested in specific sexual acts. Stop putting words in her mouth, including insinuating he is LD. Not once did she indicate that he has little interest in sex, only that she THOUGHT all men like certain acts, which is NOT the case. The REAL issue here is that she doesn't trust what he says. They need to address THAT, if they are going to figure anything out.

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The REAL issue here is that she doesn't trust what he says. They need to address THAT, if they are going to figure anything out
I'm thinking her unwillingess to take what he says at face value is eclipsed by their different sexual preference. He's a conservative guy who is probably satisfied with missionary style sex, and she wants to be degraded and spit on. That doesn't leave much for a middle ground.
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