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post #106 of 202 (permalink) Old 03-13-2017, 11:45 AM
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Re: Do any men NOT enjoy facials, anal and cum shots?

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Oh, and it is a lot more complicated than that.
I'm trying to hold back further comments until we get to the point where she finds her husband's secret porn collection/history and she gets confused and can't make any sense out of the stuff he watches, mostly because it is really boring!
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Re: Do any men NOT enjoy facials, anal and cum shots?

Ok. If Mrs. C wanted to try anal, I carefully would but I don't have an interest myself.

Same with the other activities.

I love blasting off while firmly embedded in her flesh.

We are actually working on her getting better at BJ's and when she gets me to completion, I want to get her to take me in her mouth.

Blasting off outside of her isn't as erotic, fun or feel as good.

If you think it would be fun, your H should give it a go.
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Having had several very small pessaries inserted in the past which DID hurt I have to disagree.
Disagree all you like, yet that doesn't change the fact that anal sex doesn't hurt my wife who has enjoyed doing it for over 20 years.

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Its for the expelling of waste, we have a vagina for sex.
Just as you use your body as you like, my wife uses her body as she likes.

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Your wife may well have issues in the future with leakage etc, many do.
Sure she might have issues, on the other hand like many others she also might not.

Yet she chooses to have anal sex.

Since my wife is an accomplished and well read 46 year old bilingual career woman, with multiple tertiary qualifications including a STEM degree. That is also a mother of two teenage children. I figure she's grown up enough, to decide for herself how she uses her body, especially since she is cognisant of the risks inherent in all of her sexual practices.
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I'm trying to hold back further comments until we get to the point where she finds her husband's secret porn collection/history and she gets confused and can't make any sense out of the stuff he watches, mostly because it is really boring!
I'm hoping she just tells the whole truth, considering none of us knows her irl, and she can remain anonymous, but I don't think she will. She is basing her thoughts on what her husband does/does not/will/may do on the actions of men in her past. She thinks he is just like the "good men" who still decided to pay someone else for things they didn't do with their wives (see her post a page or two back about that fear). This isn't about what he does and does not want/like. It is about HER fears, and I truly believe she should get counseling for it. The board cannot help her with this, especially when leaving out pertinent information. 🙁

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Men and women like and don't like doing those things. For men, a faciasl are a visual thing... like porn. Some may do it for dominance, some may just like the look of their seed. How about if a woman wants to pee on her husband's face? Is that dominance? Likely, but not always. It always depends on the dynamics of the people involved.

There is likely not a legal sex act I haven't done or tried. Okay, there are some I can think of that I have no interest doing.
My wife is actually disappointed that I don't and have yet to give her a facial.

I've been rougher (always consenting) on other women - before and after meeting my wife.
It took me a while before I would flog my wife, easier to let a good friend of mine do it. But it is something we both have enjoyed.
I haven't used my floggers or other toys on my wife in over a year (Affair issues a year ago, been back together for 9 months. We are not against doing or other kinks - but we simply haven't) - but she could use a good spanking.

For men who have sex with prostitutes - they are VERY rough on them. I'm guessing the HIGH dollar ones won't allow such abuse - these are the $10K~20K weekend ones.

So why? Because as our wife - you are more than just a sex toy. Having children can also wreck havoc on some mens and women's minds. "You are the mother of my children" simply rings true.

Time to make use of some lube... my wife deserves it.

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I'm hoping she just tells the whole truth, considering none of us knows her url, and she can remain anonymous, but I don't think she will. She is basing her thoughts on what her husband does/does not/will/may do on the actions of men in her past. She thinks he is just like the "good men" who still decided to pay someone else for things they didn't do with their wives (see her post a page or two back about that fear). This isn't about what he does and does not want/like. It is about HER fears, and I truly believe she should get counseling for it. The board cannot help her with this, especially when leaving out pertinent information. 🙁
Ouch!

I think this comment will be relevant for the OP to read and will not sidetrack this thread, but I do sometimes wonder how much of the "wild/crazy" sex that happens in the world is driven and motivated out of some kind of fear? Then when the fear subsides, so does the wild/crazy sex! For the men that actually enjoyed things being wild/crazy, they then think that they did something wrong for it to stop, not realizing that they were just being "good men" and instilling confidence/safety in the relationship. And THEN these men turn to paying for it because they are hurt that it stopped with their wives and need it to try and feel loved again.

As messed up as that sounds, I can so see that playing out in many relationships.

The OP should be happy her husband is just simple and easy to please. Even if that is a little boring at times.

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@EleGirl I'm going to go out on a limb and speculate that she would much rather eat an exciting and elegant rare-cooked filet, instead of the same fast food tofu sandwich day after day.



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This is pretty accurate. I have a tight ass body and I work super hard to keep it that way. One of the ways I've kept myself in check is by raising my standards of food choice. I'm also a wanna-be chef. I love cooking.
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This thread turned into a **** show.
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This is pretty accurate. I have a tight ass body and I work super hard to keep it that way. One of the ways I've kept myself in check is by raising my standards of food choice. I'm also a wanna-be chef. I love cooking.
Are you saying that if you gained 50 pounds that your husband would no longer be interested in you?

My wife's weight has varied a great deal since we married, and it has never changed the way I view her. Now I know some men complain about weight, but keep in mind that the empty can rattles the loudest! From how you describe your husband, he does not rattle at all. Perhaps you want to appreciate that!

Ask him if you gained 50 to 100 pounds if he would find you unattractive? Perhaps he may even enjoy a few extra curves.

Yes it is important to eat healthy and take good care of yourself, but that process should be an enjoyable one and not one where you punish yourself. So enjoy a nice steak!

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This thread turned into a **** show.
No seriously, people want to help!

Why are you so afraid men will just "pay for it" unless they are getting everything and then some at home? Can we talk about that?
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I don't count myself in the camp that likes degradation. Come shots occasionally, on her breasts or butt. Anal is way too painful for her. Facials I consider to be degrading to her, I put it in the same league as golden showers.

However, that does not mean that we do not get freaky. One of the current favorites is doing it in every room of our house, plus our deck and our hot tub. (PS, its winter around here-I had to buy an air matress, I was getting rug-burn and splinters). Another thing, I like a drink now and then, however, we live in Canada, and cannabis is now available in stores in our city. (Standing in line waiting to buy two quarters, I noted that nearly every customer was in the 40-70 year old range-no kids) My wife likes a firecracker (That is a joint that has a line of resin down the centre). She also likes to smoke mostly indica as it is a body high that intensifies orgasm. Third, as far as acts go, I am flexible and I like to be upright, while she reclines, while I am in her, I suck on her toes, while thumbing her clit with one hand and stroking her breasts with the other. That generally does a few tricks. (The wife is very multiple orgasmic, and a squirter).

Do yourself a favor and buy "Joy of Sex", get some lubes and a few toys. (I just got a vibrating ****-ring-fun city)

Spice it up by using your fingers on him. A little anal stimulation can make one come like a wildcat. Suck nipples, ask if he wants to try pegging. (You get the strap-on) Ask him what his kinks are. My wife likes anal stimulation without penetration, so I took up rimming...nothing like her coming from a tongue lashing in the butt. Tell him NOTHING embarrasses you.

I asked, here is a partial list: Wants to take our cruise, booked a balcony so we can **** on the high seas, outdoors as the ocean passes by. We go to the lover's lane we used when we were teenagers with a blanket and scare the animals away. We have been watched while doing this-dogging, but had little inclination to watch others-not into voyeurism. We had a rooftop suite in Paris, a helicopter hovered over us for a while. (You wanna watch a couple of sixty-somethings go at it, no probs-on second thought, my wife does not look 62, real hot and still has a fabulous rack)

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This thread turned into a **** show.
From what you have stated, you believe that all men want these sort of sexual acts and will use prostitutes if their wives will not do these things.

With these beliefs you seem to think that:


All men are the same, all cheat and all want those things that you list. I guess you think that all men use prostitutes.

All men who say that they don't enjoy those things are lying because you know that this is what all men want. So you apparently think that all the men here on TAM who said that they are not interested in those things are lying.

That any woman who believes her husband when he says that he does not want those things is stupid/delusional/whatever.

You also seem to not be open to anything that contradicts your beliefs.

So what is it that you think anyone here on TAM can help you with?
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So what is it that you think anyone here on TAM can help you with?
I think she was looking for men to unanimously to say that anyone that does not like facials, anal and cum shots has serious problems and needs to have their heads examined, because if most men are not getting it or do not want it at home they will go out and just pay for it. This would validate her frustrations and she could justify herself getting upset with her husband.

Otherwise she will have a tough time realizing that she has been and continues to objectify all men including her husband as sex objects with no self control.

It may be interesting for this thread to point out that just because you see something in porn all the time does not mean it is real. I actually spent some time researching the internet for how the industry produces a good many facials and cum shots. Anyone can read about some of the props used for cum shots here Fake cum and cum shot device

This just goes to show that even the men that get paid to do facials and cum shots sometimes have to use some props because for whatever reason they just can't do it in real life for the camera!

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@UnicornCupcake

You need to lay off the porn.... seriously.

Go for a walk outside once in a while.

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No seriously, people want to help!

Why are you so afraid men will just "pay for it" unless they are getting everything and then some at home? Can we talk about that?
Yep, some men will pay for it if they don't get everything and then some, yet I doubt most would.

As someone who gets all of that and then some, not getting all of that in the past. Hasn't seen me seek it elsewhere, whether paid (something I have never done or have been inclined to do) or otherwise.

Although I frequently enjoy such things, I happily chose to stay in one monogamous sexual relationship for close to a year sans any anal sex. If I didn't end that relationship for reasons unrelated to sex, it is possible I might still be with that woman today with no complaints regarding sex.

At the end of the day, it is a fools errand to think that we all share identical sexual likes and dislikes.
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