Re: Do some men really not like this?
Some people just aren't built to receive things (BJ's, gifts, compliments, you name it).
Look, apart from the relative minority of men who do not like receiving BJ's because they're boring, or they simply don't do much for them, there are many men (and women) out there who view standalone oral sex as imbalanced, and otherwise feel there's a 'catch' to it. This, I believe, is the main reason many people don't enjoy giving OR receiving oral sex, or other standalone sexual favours.
Not many people like the feeling of owing somebody something, or even being owed something. I don't. I don't view sex or sex acts as tit-for-tat, mind you, but many people DO.
Some people are givers, some are receivers. Some are both, some are neither.
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