blow jobs. Yes My husband does not like them and has never cared for them. I don't know how many other men are like this and why? Maybe closet homosexuals?
highly doubt he is gay. My wife doesn't like when i give her oral, it's not me it's her because of past experience i know what i am doing and more importantly i am open to guidance as every girl is different.
My take on the blow job is this: it's a novelty, it's fun, it feels different, it's like the 2nd doggy style position (i say this because it has that different feeling just like flipping the girl over feels like a whole new ball game at times), however the problems with the blow job are: guilt for making your girl do this, she isn't getting any pleasure out of it.
90% of my pleasure comes from knowing i am pleasing the girl, some men are different perhaps and want to only receive pleasure.
My question would be: is he very eager to please you always? if that is the case he might just feel guilty about the blow job.
other aspects are: well it might be too sensitive physically stimulating to him, he might get overwhelmed by it, just like if you pull back your hood and directly stimulate the clit it can be overly stimulating at times.
Other possible issues: he is insecure about the taste or smell of his penis, it's possible, some women are that way with their vaginas.
I would say if he is more eager to please you it could be the issue here that he doesn't want you to please him.
it could also just be the sensation, men like sex because well it's sex, and the blow job is not as intimate.
When i was 16, blow jobs were common as water, and sex was the holly grail. So, as i got older, blow jobs became more like a childish activity. Then sex became like water as i got married so now i like blow jobs.
If you suspect he is gay however, there must be a lot of other issues? Gay men probably give bjs more than other forms of sex is my bet but i haven't got a clue what they do, so being gay simply doesn't mean you'd not like a bj lol