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post #1 of 55 (permalink) Old 03-13-2017, 07:01 PM Thread Starter
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Do some men really not like this?

blow jobs. Yes My husband does not like them and has never cared for them. I don't know how many other men are like this and why? Maybe closet homosexuals?
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Re: Do some men really not like this?

That is too strong. Just because one doesn't like them doesn't make them gay. Maybe they think it is demeaning. Is this a round about way of asking if your husband is gay?
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blow jobs. Yes My husband does not like them and has never cared for them. I don't know how many other men are like this and why? Maybe closet homosexuals?
Homosexuals love blow jobs so get that idea out of your head.I have never met a man of any persuasion who didn't like a blow job every so often.Is he a hygiene freak.Maybe some woman scarred him for life and his attitude is once bitten.....
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Re: Do some men really not like this?

Yes, some men are not as interested as we assume they should be.

My partner was not interested in them till recently. This only after I repeatedly expressed how much I fantasized about giving him oral.

A close friend who's been with her partner over 10 years now has never given him oral. He was adamant from the jump that he could not bear to put it in her mouth as he couldn't reconcile the thought of her kissing their children with the same mouth. He has no problem giving her oral though. Very strange indeed, she thinks he's had some traumatizing childhood experience that convinced him that his penis was dirty or something of the sort.

On another note, how are things going with your husband's emotional affair?
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blow jobs. Yes My husband does not like them and has never cared for them. I don't know how many other men are like this and why? Maybe closet homosexuals?


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Maybe he doesn't trust you? The thought of a pair of teeth on his willy gives him the willies!
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It could be he just isn't interested in that.. everyone has there does and donts with what gets them interested.


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I dont know. I haven't seen hide nor hair from the OW
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I have male genitalia and I do not enjoy oral to completion. It feels selfish and one sided to me. Only had one a few times and did not enjoy it.

Ironically, I love to give a woman hand jobs and oral. I just don't like getting them. I know I am weird. But your H is not the only male who feels that way.

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I don't know and have never met a man that doesn't like it.

I love it but for a while didn't want it much from Mrs. C. Because she was bad at it.

She is now getting pretty good and can take over half my length.

A good BJ is heavenly. Your H needs to loosen up.

Is he more passive or dominant?
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I love them, but people do vary. There are women that have posted that they don't like receiving oral, so I'm not surprised that there are men who don't like it.

Are his other sexual interests fairly typical?
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Re: Do some men really not like this?

The most asked for sexual act by husbands from prostitutes is blow jobs. It is probably the most wanted sexual act by men all over the world. My wife does not like intercourse, but that does not mean other women do not like it. It appears that many wives will not give oral sex, so their husbands get it elsewhere. If not from a prostitute, then from another woman. For me, oral sex was always the appetizer before the main course, or many times, the only course. A lot of women either do not get, or have trouble getting, orgasms by intercourse. It is usually much easier to bring women to an orgasm by oral sex. For men, it is a good way to get him erect prior to intercourse.

I always viewed blow jobs as a regular part of sex. Maybe that is why I never visited a prostitute. Another thing I noticed is that when a woman wants you to keep seeing her, or to continue having sex with her, she will give you a lot of oral sex because she knows that most men want it.

Many prefer to drown in a pool of their own morality rather than seek the safety of a different morality.

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I don't like receiving blow jobs. I certainly don't think it has any bearing on sexual orientation. If anything, maybe having gay tendencies makes men more interested in receiving blow jobs.
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