Re: Contraception in marriage
Just adding my two cents, but I would recommend the pill, because you are virgin. Condoms have some benefits, but they are not reliable, particularly if both of you are inexperienced. The IUD has changed and is way better than it was in the 70's and 80's. My friends who have the Mirena IUD love it. But, I just got one placed today to stop bleeding (The copper one increases bleeding the Mirena tends to stop bleeding) and it hurt. It might be a good option after you have had some positive sexual experiences, but I can imagine that that feeling without some fun stuff to balance it out would put you off letting anybody put anything in you.