This sounds great and everything and I wish it was that easy. It can't be his OWN sex life when it takes two to make the fireworks blow.
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I kinda disagree with this particular case. His wife is initiating twice a week. If the wife doesn't ever have sex with her husband than I would agree with you.
Sometimes you need to make your own magic happen. I'm sure that the OP is exaggerating on this wife's behavior. I also think the way he is feeling is painting an unfair picture of his wife.
Another important thing is, some women (probably like this mans wife) feel uncomfortable with sex. It's hard for them to relax. And when you are with someone who is obviously feeling you and is making it no secret that he is enjoying you, it not only builds up your confidence but it makes you relax and enjoy sex more.
You can't have 2 awkward, uncomfortable, silent people having sex together. At least one person has to take charge and be enthusiastic. Not fake... enthusiastic. When my husband is quite and looking at my face it's so awkward. When he is into it, he makes me get into it, and vice versa. Sometimes one of us is not into it much because of circumstances but as long as the other person is who cares.
Sex is not going to be porn star quality all the time. Sex doesn't have to be porn star quality to be enjoyable. The problem is... many men who watch a lot of porn, require a lot of stimulus and acting from their partner to sustain or to consider the experience enjoyable. Something tells me, this is the OPs problem.