Re: Has anyone had sex be the glue that held a poor relationship together
Before my wife, I dated a girl who I had literally ZERO chemistry with. Our personalities didn't really mesh, and not to be snobby, but I didn't think she was all that intelligent. She was decent looking, but her dull personality really cancelled that out for me. But she was really good at all things sexual. Best BJs I've ever had, without a doubt. She just had a dedicated enthusiasm for it that is hard to find. We coasted along for about 8-9 months. I really don't think this girl even comprehended that we had a mediocre relationship. She cried hysterically when I broke up with her, which shocked me because I didn't think we were that serious at all. It was a long distance thing, she went to college about 3 hours away, so when I eventually did end it, I had that as an excuse. I started dating my wife shortly after, and it was a much better overall experience.