Re: Has anyone had sex be the glue that held a poor relationship together
In my marriage, we had a terrible dynamic about so many things, and we did ultimately divorce. However, our sex life was always stellar and it was always the one part of our relationship that never had any issues. I would say that the great sex did work as a glue for us for a long time, but eventually the other problems outweighed everything else and we had to break up. If we didn't have a great sex life, we would have broken up much sooner (or probably never got married to begin with).
We both have a lot of regret about how things turned out and wished we could have been better partners for each other. We also still acknowledge how great the sex was and even how great it would be to have it again. But we know that if we did this, we would be sucked down a sinkhole that we've already had to painfully extract ourselves out of once, and we could not bear to go through that pain all over again. In other words, I know we would never be able to "just have sex". We would immediately fall back in love with each other, and then.....like I said, just a sinkhole of pain would be awaiting us.
Remember the goal of feminism: Making sure only alphas get laid!
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