Join Date: Jan 2016
Location: Southern USA, but longtime NYC boy prior to our move.
Re: Fantasy of Wife Watching: Does your spouse know?
There are a lot more men living their sex lives online than those actually doing what they say they are doing. What you are noticing is a lot of guys who masturbate to cuckold porn until they want to experience it themselves. Online it is not really their wife and then have no emotions other than arousal. Real life is very different.
I was a cuckold before it was even called that back in 1972. That lasted a year and ended when my girlfriend asked my three visiting friends to gang bang her and then expected me to lick her clean. After that I cuckolded two husbands and one fiancee for a few months. I cuckolded my last cuck for 25 years. He liked the fact that I am married and sterile because he lost his first wife to one of her lovers.
Long story short is that most who post about it are living their sex lives online. Reality rarely mirrors our fantasies. First off, most guys cannot have sex with a husband watching. Sex with no condom is plain stupid. Randomly picking up guys in a bar is not going to snag you a guy with a large penis who can go all night.
I used to call out a lot of guys on a cuckold website until I realized that almost all of them were into online fantasy sex play and supported each other. Case in point was the guy who said his wife was cuckolding and feminizing him. His wife invited all of his friends and family over to have him serve them a meal dressed like a maid while wearing a chastity belt. He was to announce that his wife was pregnant with a black man's baby. After the meal they all urinated on him. I went back the next day to see who called him out on it but instead found 15 post either congratulating him or express jealousy that the guy did what they want to do. That is online sex sites for you. One guy said that his wife tied him to the bed when she went out to cuckold him a few nights a week and did not return until the next day. When I asked him how he went to the bathroom and the danger of being tied for so long, his story changes. The more holes I picked in his story, the more it changed. That is online sex forums for you.
Most into cuckolding are bisexual either openingly or repressed according to experts who deal with sexual problems. 60% was the last figure I saw. It certainly was the case for my wife. I never knew why she was so into watching me with other women and I was not about to kill the golden goose by asking questions. Eventually she realized that she likes sex with women. There are many reasons for cuckolding other than being bi. For some it is a live sex show with the star going home with him at the end of the night. For others it makes their wive seem more valuable because other men want her. One thing that is constant is that the sex with your wife afterwards is very intense to what is called sperm competition. In other words, you give it your A Plus game.
Some guys do it to degrade their wives or use their wives as sex objects to feed their fetish and any pleasure that their wife gets is incidental to her doing the things he wants her to do. What I tell guys interested in this is to try to find long married couples into cuckolding. They are as rare as hen's teeth. The cucks that I knew all ended up divorcing because it seems that their wives end up resenting them for not loving them enough to want them all to themselves or get tired of feeling like they are being used for their husband's fetish and he cares more about satisfying that fetish than he does about his wife. Rules are false security and when emotions kick in, wives make bad decisions. Two cuckoldresses were willing to leave their husband for me and that was the reason I left them. Did not want to ruin anyone's marriage. It is one thing when both husband and wife are into it but when the wife goes off the reservation, as they say, goes rogue, it is a much different game.
Hope I gave you some insight into cuckolding or wife sharing. Yes I have watched my wife with another man and it did nothing for me and my wife hated it. She likes to play with girls and just me.
Many prefer to drown in a pool of their own morality rather than seek the safety of a different morality when the choice is monogamy or your marriage.
Last edited by Vinnydee; 03-24-2017 at 12:05 AM.