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post #76 of 78 (permalink) Old 04-02-2017, 07:29 AM
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Re: Wife thinks about other men during sex

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The spanking I am referring to would not come under the heading of any form of domestic violence.

It could be referred to as a fetish and, while to varying degrees can be uncomfortable or even painful, is consensual and can be a sexual stimulus.

It is also something that could work for a discipline in the case of a cheating spouse who is remorseful to allow a very visceral display of contrition and and submission for their betrayed.

Showing that level of submission and trust to your betrayed spouse can go a long way towards healing the breach caused by infidelity.

Along with true remorse and heavy lifting, submitting to a spanking can break down some very nasty walls built up by lies and backstabbing.

I've seen it work wonders.
So if a spouse does something wrong you can spank them whether they like it or not??? It is violence whether you put it under that heading or not, especially if its done as a punishment.
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Re: Wife thinks about other men during sex

If she used to come from you being in her; and post affair she only comes if you use an extender----I think you can connect the dots.

But I'll go ahead and say it, in case you can't: He was bigger than you, it felt better, and now that's what she prefers to get off.

You didn't seem to have any confession from her that she's thinking about anyone else. If the physical stimulation is strong enough; you don't need to think about anything: you simply feel good.

If she is thinking about someone else; it's to put an emotional barrier between you and her. She doesn't feel close to you.


Still want to take her back and "reconcile"?
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So if a spouse does something wrong you can spank them whether they like it or not??? It is violence whether you put it under that heading or not, especially if its done as a punishment.
Maybe you are tired? You are not actually talking to me but at me and ignoring direct statements from me to pursue a false conclusion about my statement.

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