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post #16 of 66 (permalink) Old 03-29-2017, 11:47 AM
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We're all in screwed up relationships. A lot of us are lucky to get laid every once in while, let alone get a BJ. LOL
That's for sure. I would be happy with being treated as a human being for once.

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post #17 of 66 (permalink) Old 03-29-2017, 12:27 PM
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Well, I thought about it the month after Valentines day, but my wife will not do BJ's, so I just had steak. Oh, well. Still we have sex twice a week and I am extremely pleased about that.
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I'm on a special diet.


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It's lame. Why do you need a special day to show your partner that you love them? If you have a good relationship, you should know (and they will show you) that they love you every day. Real Estate said, "Every day with me is Valentine's Day, baby!" and I told him he was a dork, lol. But seriously, he doesn't need a special reason to go out to a nice dinner, we just go out if we want to go out. (V-Day restaurant specials are a rip-off anyway, and the service is always awful.) And I wouldn't say that he treats every day like V-Day, but he is consistently kind, caring, sweet, and affectionate on a daily basis... and that's way better.

That being said, I do like some of the kitsch of the holiday. I like the stuffed animals and the heart-shaped candies and stuff like that, so I like a little something to mark the day, just because it's fun.
Agreed. I like the idea of it in the sense that it helps to force two people to maybe spend some time together that they otherwise wouldn't for a variety of reasons (case in point with my W, between work and kids we routinely go a week or longer with 0 alone time). I don't like the fact that it gets made into the end all / be all day for relationships where it appears to have just as much importance as celebrating an anniversary or birthday (those are really the only two dates that matter to me, and I guess Taco Tuesday!). As you mentioned, hopefully you are doing things for/with your SO frequently and not just on a day chosen by Hallmark.
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Well it was a strange year for me. We usually celebrate in reverse. I get a present for VD and I grill her a steak and offer her the sexual favor of her choice for S&BJ day. She was very stressed in February It got so bad I almost returned the present I bought for her. So on V-day I gave her the present unwrapped. but she loved it anyway and wears it often. Then very much to my surprise she insisted on celebrating S&BJ day. Good news is my special diet includes lots of steak. The bj was pretty good too.
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Steak and BJ day is 2-3 times per week for me.

If you gotta wait for one particular day in the year to get it, you might as well shoot yourself.
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We're all in screwed up relationships. A lot of us are lucky to get laid every once in while, let alone get a BJ. LOL
Speak for yourself, every time I see my girlfriend it's bj day.

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Speak for yourself, every time I see my girlfriend it's bj day.

So many fish in the sea and most of you settle for washed up dead ones.
Mr HB used to be lucky that way too... BJ 3-4 times/week, although steak less often due to high cholesterol. Unfortunately a good sex life wasn't enough to keep him faithful.

Sometimes there's a good reason things change, it's not always a dead fish.
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Was that yesterday?
Damn, I forgot to have steak.
3/14

is the day ......mark next years cal.
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Agreed. I like the idea of it in the sense that it helps to force two people to maybe spend some time together that they otherwise wouldn't for a variety of reasons (case in point with my W, between work and kids we routinely go a week or longer with 0 alone time). I don't like the fact that it gets made into the end all / be all day for relationships where it appears to have just as much importance as celebrating an anniversary or birthday (those are really the only two dates that matter to me, and I guess Taco Tuesday!). As you mentioned, hopefully you are doing things for/with your SO frequently and not just on a day chosen by Hallmark.
You can only suggest but not force. If your wife doesn't want to spend time with you, she'll just do something else that she has you believe she can't get out of. That leaves you with nothing...again. Then if you bring up to her that you did want to spend time with her, guess what, it'll be YOUR fault. That's why I favor not getting married, if this bull**** happens you can just pack up your things and leave her for someone who does want to spend time with you.

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Sometimes there's a good reason things change, it's not always a dead fish.
Sound's like you got one that needs to be flushed down the toilet.

Maybe you should hit up the aquarium store and find a new fish.

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Since my wife doesn't "cook" is it ok if I do "take out"?
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Got the steak, and it was fantastic, but the couch then used it's magic powers to render her unconscious.

That's okay, though, she took care of the rest the next night.
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Since my wife doesn't "cook" is it ok if I do "take out"?
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I got mine!
i got mine on day after valentines day, but my wife has jaw issues so she cannot allegedly do it for long, so we finish with PIV. so i get about 2-3 minutes of the best bj ever, and i don't think it is just my lack of memory of past ones, but it really is.
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