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post #46 of 66 (permalink) Old 03-29-2017, 06:35 PM
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Re: steak and bj day came and went

Yes, but not in a reversible way.

You do see posts here from men who's partners seem to offer to do anything sexual that the men might want, but those men are still not happy.


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Yes, but not in a reversible way.

You do see posts here from men who's partners seem to offer to do anything sexual that the men might want, but those men are still not happy.
No not really. I think much of a mans overall happiness is tied to his sexual relationship with his partner. I know plenty of men who are sexless and miserable but not many getting all the enthusiastic sex they can handle and miserable.
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Plenty of steaks laying around in the ranch freezer... but alas, no BJ's!

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Re: steak and bj day came and went

We've been averaging 2-3 times a day for the past couple weeks or so. My hormones are in an uproar. I actually forgot about S&BJ Day in all the activity.

Follow the evidence where it leads and question everything.
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We've been averaging 2-3 times a day for the past couple weeks or so. My hormones are in an uproar. I actually forgot about S&BJ Day in all the activity.
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Protien free?

No meat?

No sausage?

No trouser trout?

No big salami?

Most dietitians recommend a cheat day......better late than never
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Got to be honest ....love them but not really interested in one from someone who dosen't like to give them. Because they suck from someone who isn't into giving. As a matter of fact its like that with sex in general.
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Re: steak and bj day came and went

its a great idea, but is just not catching on.
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Protien free?

No meat?

No sausage?

No trouser trout?

No big salami?

Most dietitians recommend a cheat day......better late than never
LOL... no steak...
And no more BJs for Mr HB as he was a bit overly fond of the "cheat day"

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Got to be honest ....love them but not really interested in one from someone who dosen't like to give them. Because they suck from someone who isn't into giving. As a matter of fact its like that with sex in general.
Sadly, I actually love to give... and this was Mr HB's favorite activity... preferring to finish that way. I do miss it... I miss all sex of course, but definitely the giving nature of the BJ I miss in particular. Going from a great sex life to solo soothing after d-day sucks (and not in a good way).
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M'Lady had just had major surgery the day before. So she gets a pass!
Passes should be given only if it was oral surgery.
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Does chicken and BJ count?
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my wife things BJs are degrading and disgusting. OTOH, I live a near sexless life
I'd actually completely respect your wife's position on BJs if:

1) You were still getting laid 3-5 times a week (clearly not your case)

2) She wasn't expecting any type of oral in return. Otherwise it's hypocrisy.

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No not really. I think much of a mans overall happiness is tied to his sexual relationship with his partner. I know plenty of men who are sexless and miserable but not many getting all the enthusiastic sex they can handle and miserable.
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and there wasn't a single thread about it.


Not a word about this anywhere. Sorry we missed it. Such a great idea for a holiday too. It's exactly what they should replace Columbus Day with as a national holiday... :-)
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LOL... no steak...
And no more BJs for Mr HB as he was a bit overly fond of the "cheat day"



Sadly, I actually love to give... and this was Mr HB's favorite activity... preferring to finish that way. I do miss it... I miss all sex of course, but definitely the giving nature of the BJ I miss in particular. Going from a great sex life to solo soothing after d-day sucks (and not in a good way).
I just don't get the I'm an low down cheater thing. I mean really is it worth it? especially when you have someone ready and willing.

Not familiar with your story are you trying to R

opps just read your thread about the sexing now I remember.

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