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post #61 of 66 (permalink) Old 03-30-2017, 04:18 PM
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I seriously feel like some kind of creeper. I've always been HD, but this is ridiculous. I actually had to convince myself not to pounce on the poor man this morning just to give him a 12 hour break. If this keeps on he'll end up hospitalized for exhaustion and dehydration.

Follow the evidence where it leads and question everything.
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I just don't get the I'm an low down cheater thing. I mean really is it worth it? especially when you have someone ready and willing.

Not familiar with your story are you trying to R
It's a long story... the 5 cent version: married 20 years, 3 kids. Lots of struggles, but overall I thought it was a solid marriage... best friends, date nights, great sex life ... I thought we were happy.

A few years ago, Mr HB became sick (stage 4 cancer) and we went through hell. He then had a sexting affair as an escape, and got caught. We tried to R (well I did), but it seems he was only interested in the hyper-bonding sex as he never showed any real remorse and just wanted me to get over it. The sad thing is, I think I could have forgiven his need to escape if he could have just admitted that it was wrong and acknowledged the hurt he caused. He still doesn't think he really did anything wrong.

Now we live separate but together...room-mates. Cancer has returned and is now inoperable. If not for his health, I'm pretty sure we'd be divorcing. But it seems like a wasted effort given what the future holds for him.
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It's a long story... the 5 cent version: married 20 years, 3 kids. Lots of struggles, but overall I thought it was a solid marriage... best friends, date nights, great sex life ... I thought we were happy.

A few years ago, Mr HB became sick (stage 4 cancer) and we went through hell. He then had a sexting affair as an escape, and got caught. We tried to R (well I did), but it seems he was only interested in the hyper-bonding sex as he never showed any real remorse and just wanted me to get over it. The sad thing is, I think I could have forgiven his need to escape if he could have just admitted that it was wrong and acknowledged the hurt he caused. He still doesn't think he really did anything wrong.

Now we live separate but together...room-mates. Cancer has returned and is now inoperable. If not for his health, I'm pretty sure we'd be divorcing. But it seems like a wasted effort given what the future holds for him.
I am so sorry! 20 years and three children, that is probably a lot of wonderful memories of better times.

I hope that some of your children live close. I know when my father died, my mom surprisingly lost it. She felt completely betrayed that he was no longer there to do the things that needed to be done around the house and property. Living just an hour away allowed me to help her make a transition that she didn't think she would have to make.

Good luck and be strong.
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I am so sorry! 20 years and three children, that is probably a lot of wonderful memories of better times.

I hope that some of your children live close. I know when my father died, my mom surprisingly lost it. She felt completely betrayed that he was no longer there to do the things that needed to be done around the house and property. Living just an hour away allowed me to help her make a transition that she didn't think she would have to make.

Good luck and be strong.

Our kids are younger so still at home.... 11, 15 and 17. Our oldest is heading to college across the country in the fall. I never expected to be going through all of this at our age... he is 51, I am 46.

Well, sorry for the T/J, but that's why no more BJs for Mr HB (at least not from me).
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I learned of steak and bj day from this site, actually. I set it up in my Google calendar, so for two years it's been observed in my household 😊
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I learned of steak and bj day from this site, actually. I set it up in my Google calendar, so for two years it's been observed in my household 😊
You are awesome!

So many women act like its some horrible holiday
. Say things like its just a made up holiday so MEN can get a blow job. Yea maybe its true . Would it really hurt them to play along and make their husband or boyfriend feel special.

But they sure Expect a special time for V_day.

I'm sick of the female double standard.

All the cool sexual women on tam excluded of course
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