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The strange thing is she is responding very positively to getting fd instead of love making.
This has been the most surprising thing about women that I have learned over the years.

Luckily I've been married for 27 years to a woman who will tolerate love making.
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On a serious note:

The small blood vessels that pump up the giant tend to plug up as men age.
Cure: B-complex vitamins. B-6 especially...niacin converts to nitric oxide. Nitric acid in the blood stream help the blood flow. Do not take too much Niacin, only on the days needed.
L-arginine and Pycnogenol, taken together they do help. These drugs are for mild problems with ED.

There are vessel-gates that control the blood flow to Peter Rabbit. These gates are controlled by the Central Nervous System. Injuries to the spine or nerves feeding the groin could be aggravated by heavy lifts or a past accident. There are tests to check out these nerves. Good luck getting a doctor to work with you at any serious level. They usually give you a pill Rx and send you on your way. A few types of nervous system disorders can affect potency.

And remember "The Committee of Naysayers" that I have expounded on in the past. Just like congress, the body has to work in unison. All it takes is one veto from a key committee member and any hard-peter legislation goes down in flames.

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On a serious note:

The small blood vessels that pump up the giant tend to plug up as men age.
Cure: B-complex vitamins. B-6 especially...niacin converts to nitric oxide. Nitric acid in the blood stream help the blood flow. Do not take too much Niacin, only on the days needed.
L-arginine and Pycnogenol, taken together they do help. These drugs are for mild problems with ED.

There are vessel-gates that control the blood flow to Peter Rabbit. These gates are controlled by the Central Nervous System. Injuries to the spine or nerves feeding the groin could be aggravated by heavy lifts or a past accident. There are tests to check out these nerves. Good luck getting a doctor to work with you at any serious level. They usually give you a pill Rx and send you on your way. A few types of nervous system disorders can affect potency.

And remember "The Committee of Naysayers" that I have expounded on in the past. Just like congress, the body has to work in unison. All it takes is one veto from a key committee member and any hard-peter legislation goes down in flames.
This is very interesting.

I have started having some pretty heavy pain from my injuries from a year ago and feel my very physical job has been aggravating them.

My back was injured, along with almost every other part of my body, in the crash I was in.
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An example of what has happened.

We get to making out and feeling each other up.

I go to give her oral and start out hard as steel.

About a minute in, my steel turns limp.

Never happened before. Usually eating at the Y produces steel not melt it.
Are you on any meds that might list ED as a possible side-effect? Pain killers?

Does your wife enjoy giving oral? Have you tried having her reciprocate after you pleasure her? I'm sure you have, but wanted to make sure, as the down time in between (for you) could be the reason.

Also, any alcohol involved?
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Conan, this sounds almost identical to me. I am 46, and occasionally Mr. ED rears it's ugly head and soft erections will follow. My doc believes it is related to lower back injuries from hard landings during my service time.

I have been using a Muse injectable pill when needed and it works well. Unlike oral meds, it goes directly in the area needed and works quickly.
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Conan, this sounds almost identical to me. I am 46, and occasionally Mr. ED rears it's ugly head and soft erections will follow. My doc believes it is related to lower back injuries from hard landings during my service time.

I have been using a Muse injectable pill when needed and it works well. Unlike oral meds, it goes directly in the area needed and works quickly.
You....you inject your pee pee?


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Are you on any meds that might list ED as a possible side-effect? Pain killers?

Does your wife enjoy giving oral? Have you tried having her reciprocate after you pleasure her? I'm sure you have, but wanted to make sure, as the down time in between (for you) could be the reason.

Also, any alcohol involved?
Thanks for the questions.

Mrs. C has become incredible at giving oral, we often do it simultaneously and I have actually developed this problem after cutting alcohol way back.

When I think of her as a piece of meat (I know that sounds bad) I get and stay very hard, with oral or PIV.

I am discussing it with her every step and she is totally supportive so that is reassuring but I miss the total giving to her that I was always capable of.

The new dimensions in our sexuality are fun and exciting but I don't want them to totally replace what we had.

For her part, she seems on cloud 9! LOL!
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Conan, this sounds almost identical to me. I am 46, and occasionally Mr. ED rears it's ugly head and soft erections will follow. My doc believes it is related to lower back injuries from hard landings during my service time.

I have been using a Muse injectable pill when needed and it works well. Unlike oral meds, it goes directly in the area needed and works quickly.
Thanks for the info. I will keep it but, given our age and possibly similar injuries, I am going to try some chiropractic and deep tissue massage first as well as nutrition. I might get my damn head examined while I'm at it!

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You....you inject your pee pee?

OH! HELL NO!!!
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Are you on any meds that might list ED as a possible side-effect? Pain killers?

Does your wife enjoy giving oral? Have you tried having her reciprocate after you pleasure her? I'm sure you have, but wanted to make sure, as the down time in between (for you) could be the reason.

Also, any alcohol involved?
Thanks for the questions.

Mrs. C has become incredible at giving oral, we often do it simultaneously and I have actually developed this problem after cutting alcohol way back.

When I think of her as a piece of meat (I know that sounds bad) I get and stay very hard, with oral or PIV.

I am discussing it with her every step and she is totally supportive so that is reassuring but I miss the total giving to her that I was always capable of.

The new dimensions in our sexuality are fun and exciting but I don't want them to totally replace what we had.

For her part, she seems on cloud 9! LOL!
Would you consider talking with a sex therapist? The issue does seem psychological...
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Would you consider talking with a sex therapist? The issue does seem psychological...
I am definitely considering that path.

I had a ton of anger and resentment towards my wife last year.

It seems strange that after things are getting better between us that this is happening.
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Would you consider talking with a sex therapist? The issue does seem psychological...
I am definitely considering that path.

I had a ton of anger and resentment towards my wife last year.

It seems strange that after things are getting better between us that this is happening.
It makes sense that improvement in the marriage can unintentionally highlight the issues in the past. I think talking to a sex/intimacy therapist could really help. Maybe the issue is linked to lingering/resurfacing anger and resentment. At least you're aware of it- so important.
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You....you inject your pee pee?

OH! HELL NO!!!
It's not that bad really. You insert a small tube into your urethra, push a button and the tiny pill is shot into your tube where it goes to work quickly.
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Inject my unit??!!?HELL NOOO!!!! LOL!!
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It's not that bad really. You insert a small tube into your urethra, push a button and the tiny pill is shot into your tube where it goes to work quickly.
There are also treatments that require an injection into the side of the penis. The injector is spring loaded, works quickly, and is virtually painless. There is a definite squick factor though.
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