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Re: Female edging?

Can I ask what contraception you use? I miss orgasming together. We just finished making babies and it's something I need to figure out going forward...(sorry if OT).
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Can I ask what contraception you use? I miss orgasming together. We just finished making babies and it's something I need to figure out going forward...(sorry if OT).
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ouch. sounds painful.
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ouch. sounds painful.
He was back home in a couple of hours and described it as uncomfortable for a day or two. He didn't even take time off work. Definitely worth it.
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Sorry I don't think I was very clear. We edged with a vibrator and then when I was ready we did PIV which made me finish in seconds and felt good for him too (because the contraction was strong and long). But he kept going - even after my orgasm this felt amazing and I had the potential for multiples.

Because PIV orgasms don't come easy to me it was quite a moment for us.

Edit: I edged many times (maybe 20+), the time between getting to the edge became less and less. When it got to just a second or two to getting there is when I gave in and we did PIV.
Excellent description.

I got to wondering about why I started it, after your mention of why it wasn't in any of the books you read. I can't find any references in any books back from my youth.

I know I started it on myself when I was pre-teen, and started practicing it on girls in High School. I just was never in a hurry?
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My own vasectomy turned out to be painful. It mostly subsided, and the doctors never sorted out why it is still tender. My wife just gives me tender kisses.

It was very liberating, and I would do it over again in a heartbeat. I recommend it to every man.
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Excellent description.

I got to wondering about why I started it, after your mention of why it wasn't in any of the books you read. I can't find any references in any books back from my youth.

I know I started it on myself when I was pre-teen, and started practicing it on girls in High School. I just was never in a hurry?
You see that's interesting to me because I have been married 21 years and rushing sex has always been my husbands way. He used to get frustrated with me because it took so long and then got into the habit of being quick and selfish.

So this is a huge deal to me. I am finding a way of slowing things down that benefits us both. The books I have read tend to be about female sexuality and even those never mentioned edging. I only heard about guys doing it. Which is why I wanted to start the thread I suppose.
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Well, it's really a great thread.

I thank you for starting it!

My wife loves the thread. Yes! My wife is multi-orgasmic once she gets going after I've been edging her about half an hour to an hour.
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Well, it's really a great thread.

I thank you for starting it!

My wife loves the thread. Yes! My wife is multi-orgasmic once she gets going after I've been edging her about half an hour to an hour.
You are welcome. Why doesn't your wife join TAM? I am sure has some interesting stories to tell!
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Excellent description.

I got to wondering about why I started it, after your mention of why it wasn't in any of the books you read. I can't find any references in any books back from my youth.

I know I started it on myself when I was pre-teen, and started practicing it on girls in High School. I just was never in a hurry?
I also wonder why I started it since I have most certainly not read anything about it..I think in my case it was a control thing (to control my wife's orgasms). But not hurrying could also have been the reason.
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