badsanta;17661793]From your husband's point of view he may be confused regarding this topic in the event you are multiorgasmic. Many men enjoy edging as we only get to enjoy one orgasm (under normal conditions), whereas women can often have as many as they want for which they tend to grow stronger and stronger.
True to some extent but edging is an orgasm that does not compete with multiples. It is almost painfully intense - but in a good way - a totally different experience.
Women also have a tendency to complain if their partner changes/varies stimulation upon getting close to an orgasm. This technique is required for edging, so if you have instructed your husband to keep doing what he is doing no matter what in the past, you will now need to explain and help him understand how/when it is preferred for him to alter stimulation to help you avoid orgasm.
I think it would be doable with practice
Do I think this is common? No. Society regularly conditions everyone that bigger, faster, stronger, more, and even more is preferred. Do I think you and your husband would enjoy exploring this concept? If he can get over the fact that "less can be more" then you two should go for it. But you will need to talk to him before hand or else it may be a confusing experience for him.
There is a good reason why I was curious as to whether it was common. I discovered it when I first started using a vibrator. For me to have multiples I have to move the vibe to less sensitive areas for a few minutes to start again. So by NOT following through the orgasm is it literally seconds whilst the urge dies off. This pretty much adds up to a long session of strong arousal (without breaks) and then an intense orgasm.
So when I mentioned this to H he thought it was 'kinky' and bizarre. I didn't know it had a name until I began reading about male edging - I thought bingo - that is what I am doing. So I mentioned it to H again. He had never heard of this technique and was convinced it was unhealthy or part of a fetish
Fast forward to yesterday when @Anon Pink
posted a link about a female orgasms. A woman on the website described the exact same thing. The difference being that she discovered it when her partner did it to her NOT through masturbation - I thought WOW.
PS: you do know you can edge PRIOR to having sex with your husband?
Not the way I do it. But I could experiment and see.