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post #16 of 36 (permalink) Old 04-06-2017, 08:25 PM
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Re: My wife stopped having sex with me!

I hope for her to have a quick recovery And that the 6 weeks will go by fast! lol
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Usually she's just all action.
Well, that makes perfect sense to me. Some of us are truly hands on type of gals...I used to be that way at one time...sigh



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But, where is that room they call a kitchen? And, what goes on in there?
prolly no sex sadly and what a waste of space indeed. Maybe you two can baptize that room once she gets better. You won't want to leave it then.

What is stored there comes in quite handy after sex, cuz most do get hungry for food after a great sex session.

Good things come to those who wait...greater things come to those who get off their a$$ and do anything to make it happen.
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I really wish I could tell when you are being serious.
Thanks for asking. Few do.

There is always some truth [from my perspective] in every post. My pervasive sense of humor is a back drop to deadly seriousness. People who know me in the flesh would say that I am a pleasant, funny
guy. An avid quipper. In reality, I am an exile in my own body, and in my journey, this time around.

This particular post [by me] was direct and straightforward.....based on the limited information that the original poster offered up. He [appeared] jovial when he wrote his first post.

I scolded him for being callous and applauded his wife for being brave. The good women lost her uterus, via hysterectomy. Not a small thing....THIS. I believe she made light of this operation to comfort her husband so that he did not feel she was going to be less of a woman. His response? Make fun of her! Shhheet

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Many of my other posts seem obscure, enigmatic and confusing. But the truth is in there if you go line-by-line.

I admit, very few Americans are willing to do this. The rest of the World? Unlikely, especially if English is not their mother tongue. My 12 grade English teacher got me switched out of Her class. Another
Banned She! She said I was a threat to her and the other student's good order. NOT BY ACTION, but by my written word. No surprise here, Eh?

Mother tongue? Even my dear mother, if she were alive today, would have an inkling as to what I mean and convey.

Looking deep in my soul, I believe she was abducted by aliens and impregnated. <--------Joke!

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Father Time covets my last breath, Mother Nature my nuts.

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I am amazed she is well enough to even think of this. When I had a full hysterectomy I felt awful, in hospital for 6 days, and it was 6 weeks before I felt anything close to normal. Before that I felt terrible and so tired and weak. Believe me, sex was the last thing on my mind, mind you I was a single mum then so sex wasn't an option anyway.

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Thanks for asking. Few do.

There is always some truth [from my perspective] in every post. My pervasive sense of humor is a back drop to deadly seriousness. People who know me in the flesh would say that I am a pleasant, funny
guy. An avid quipper. In reality, I am an exile in my own body, and in my journey, this time around.

This particular post [by me] was direct and straightforward.....based on the limited information that the original poster offered up. He [appeared] jovial when he wrote his first post.

I scolded him for being callous and applauded his wife for being brave. The good women lost her uterus, via hysterectomy. Not a small thing....THIS. I believe she made light of this operation to comfort her husband so that he did not feel she was going to be less of a woman. His response? Make fun of her! Shhheet

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Many of my other posts seem obscure, enigmatic and confusing. But the truth is in there if you go line-by-line.

I admit, very few Americans are willing to do this. The rest of the World? Unlikely, especially if English is not their mother tongue. My 12 grade English teacher got me switched out of Her class. Another
Banned She! She said I was a threat to her and the other student's good order. NOT BY ACTION, but by my written word. No surprise here, Eh?

Mother tongue? Even my dear mother, if she were alive today, would have an inkling as to what I mean and convey.

Looking deep in my soul, I believe she was abducted by aliens and impregnated. <--------Joke!

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@EllaSuaveterre

After high school, all writing halted until I retired. I am an old man. Half of my brain cells have been lost to age, hard blows to the head, cosmic ray decay and shortening of my Telomeres after cell DNA division.

Two of OUR greatest enemies are: heartless Father Time and the Grande Dame of all Banned Shes, Mother Nature.
Father Time covets my last breath, Mother Nature my nuts.

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You are one sick ole ****, but you grow on most of us...and at growing speeds like weed I might add.

Oh and yes, I mean the type we smoke not the one you kill with Round Up.

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It amazes me how well she is doing, that's for sure.

The hysterectomy was done through the vagina, they left her ovaries in place. She is 61 years old, but when the doctor mentioned taking her ovaries she said no. She quipped about if we guys wanted to give up our testicles at the same time she would give up her ovaries. Two of her doctors are women, the surgeon is a guy. So she kept her ovaries.

She had two vaginal celes stitched up at the same time, so it especially amazes me how well she is doing. She didn't even take any of the Oxy until later this evening. That knocked her out some.

She amazes me.

She says people who think her uterus was something special are misinformed. It was just some heavy muscle that served no purpose at all. Except to make her hysterical! She is really enjoying that joke.

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It amazes me how well she is doing, that's for sure.

The hysterectomy was done through the vagina, they left her ovaries in place. She is 61 years old, but when the doctor mentioned taking her ovaries she said no. She quipped about if we guys wanted to give up our testicles at the same time she would give up her ovaries. Two of her doctors are women, the surgeon is a guy. So she kept her ovaries.

She had two vaginal celes stitched up at the same time, so it especially amazes me how well she is doing. She didn't even take any of the Oxy until later this evening. That knocked her out some.

She amazes me.

She says people who think her uterus was something special are misinformed. It was just some heavy muscle that served no purpose at all. Except to make her hysterical! She is really enjoying that joke.
I had mine quite early on, when I was only 46, and also by choice had everything including my ovaries and cervix removed. Figured I didn't need them any more. Best thing I ever did having that op, and it also takes away the chances of cancer in those areas which I thought was a good thing.

I am never good with anaesthetics and also had a really sore throat and could hardly talk for a few days due to the tube they put down the throat during the op.
Make sure she doesn't over do it if she feels well, I was a single mum then so didn't have anyone to care for me/us as she has. My then teenage son helped out bless him, did all the family ironing for weeks and also took the dog out till I was able to(after 3 weeks or so). I was so tired after 6 days in hospital due to the noise/lights etc preventing sleep that the first thing I did was sleep for 12 hours. Even after 6 days it was hard to walk more than a few yards.
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Oh hi, seems I've been mentioned again, but I don't know why.

I finally had to PM @SunCMars to ask if he's schizophrenic, because nothing he says ever makes any sense whatsoever.

If anybody else is curious, the answer's no. He's fine. The rest of us just need to be more creative in our understanding of the written word. It's true; he kind of grows on you.

Sorry for doubting you, old chap.

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time to grow and get over not letting her take care of you. If she offering jump.
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I ripped my wife's vibrators in half with my hands, she gave me a deeping pillow, i passed out all knight, ask cues my typing, i am using talked type as she cut my hands off so i cannot master debate.
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Make sure she doesn't over do it if she feels well,
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She had her cervix removed.

From all the literature I had found having her ovaries removed would have been okay for her since she went through menopause 15 years ago, but she was hesitant, and I was all for her having whatever she wanted.

Yes, keeping her from overdoing it is the hardest part! Keeping her entertained while she's in bed... it's a challenge.

This morning I think the drugs they gave her at the hospital have worn off. She took the Oxycodone just after getting up, and didn't try to accompany her dog and I on the walk outside. I hope she sleeps most of the day.

She is still laughing about her jokes in this thread, and thanks everyone for helping her feel better.
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She had her cervix removed.

From all the literature I had found having her ovaries removed would have been okay for her since she went through menopause 15 years ago, but she was hesitant, and I was all for her having whatever she wanted.

Yes, keeping her from overdoing it is the hardest part! Keeping her entertained while she's in bed... it's a challenge.

This morning I think the drugs they gave her at the hospital have worn off. She took the Oxycodone just after getting up, and didn't try to accompany her dog and I on the walk outside. I hope she sleeps most of the day.

She is still laughing about her jokes in this thread, and thanks everyone for helping her feel better.
She was high...upbeat!
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Now that I think about it...after all my surgeries.....

The drugs given to put you under are very powerful. And after waking up you will say and do some really "off the wall" things. You will often make unusual and outrageous statements. The pain pills taken later, Oxycontin, morphine tabs, etc., yes, unusual talking and behavior. Beware, these pills are very addictive.

Now, keeping my sober state of mind, in perspective.....imagine me coming out of surgery or when on pain pills!
I had the nurses and doctors in stitches. I only shut up when I saw the guys with the white suits and butterfly nets!!

I refuse to take any pain pills, take ibuprofen only. I am too alpha. Too friendly.
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I wish your wife the best in her recovery. Keep her close. Support her in her needs. Do not add to her pressures.

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I spilled her coffee on her dog. Luckily she likes so much milk in it it wasn't hot, but her dog probably wouldn't have noticed with that coat.

I have to keep her dog from putting pressure on her! That animal weighs 70 pounds.

At least today she hasn't asked once if she can take her dog for a walk herself. Although she is laughing and promising she will be asking for that sooooooooooooooon. She reads everything I type over my shoulder, and always has to give me a thumbs up before I can post.

The Oxycodone must have kicked in.

Yes, she hates the idea of taking that stuff because of the addiction potential.
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Medical marijuana. For some it takes the pain away. For the rest, they stop caring that it still hurts.

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