I tried searching through all the posts, but only found bits to what I'm looking for.
Recently, my wife and I were approached by a very well off athlete for a threesome. First, I was shocked to have a superstar walk up to us to chat. So, I was in aw for the first several minutes of conversation. Then, he asked me if we were open to which I replied "No."
As the conversation progresses, and the drinks fuddle us more, he says, "well if you guys ever decide to open up a bit, I'd love to be a part of pampering your wife!" Then walks off.
My wife was WTF is he talking about, so I told her. She was just as shocked as I was. Our night carries on as normal. When we get home we are all over each other (drunk too). Fast forward to where I'm about to enter her, and I stupidly and drunkenly ask, "so does imagining having someone else move inside you do anything?" And then I enter hard and fast. Well, the reply as expected was "OMG yes!".
That night we had some of the best sex in a long time. Now, I can't get the idea of a MFM threesome out of my mind. I don't think ill of it or her in any way. We talked about it a few times. Her reply is that the idea of being 'pampered' by two guys is a huge turn on. That she'd love to try it, but morally she doesn't believe we should.
I only see her getting blissfully fulfilled. I never see another guy when thinking of this. And crazily, I would seriously consider going through with it if she wants to one day. I feel in my heart, if we tried it, and I didn't like it, I would never hold it against her. Just chalk it up as one of those things we've tried but wont do again.
SO, finally, my questions to those who HAVE done this before (please don't respond if you haven't) :
1. is it worth it?
2. does the woman actually feel pampered or more like extra work has to be done
3. if it is worth it, how the heck do you initiate something like this?
4. Any advice or suggestions other than answers to my questions will be greatly appreciated!