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post #16 of 20 (permalink) Old 04-15-2017, 01:16 AM
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Re: Ladies, must your brain be turned off to be multi-Orgasmic?

My wife reaches orgasm in under 3 minutes most times and can keep having them one after the other for as long as she can physically take it. Her record is 17. From my observation point she has an orgasm, comes down from it a little and then has her next over and over again. She does sometimes say she cannot take anymore so that suggests that she does regain use of her brain at some point during her orgasms. I have been blessed with a wife who is the premature ejactulator in the family. I have always had to try to rush my orgasm to have a simultaneous orgasm with her. At the age of 64 she can only take three in a row. Not only do her toes curl but all her muscles cramp up and it becomes pleasure mixed with pain. She does go away to la la land during her orgasms and it seems that she has to find somewhere to come down and talk to tell me she cannot take anymore.

I figured that I would give you my view of it over 47 years of sex. Answers from women would not be helpful if it is true that their brains are turned off since they will not be thinking at the time and be able to explain it. I do know that my wife and a few other of my sex partners over the decades have not been able to tell how many times they orgasmed so perhaps the powerful chemicals that produce an orgasm keep saturating their brains.

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Re: Ladies, must your brain be turned off to be multi-Orgasmic?

My wife said she does not turn off her brain.

She thinks very sexy thinks. That's when she really gets going.
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Re: Ladies, must your brain be turned off to be multi-Orgasmic?

@Young at Heart

I learned how to orgasm because I wanted to orgasm. I wanted it. So I worked out a way to get it.

I personally think that if I could figure it out, anyone can. I don't think there is anything unique about me that I can orgasm quickly and easily.

I've had to get over, get through, get past, and get on board. Before I learned how to do that, I didn't ever want sex, couldn't ever let go of the millions of things on my mind and resented that my husband could!

If your wife wants to get there, she will. Otherwise, she's happy to make you happy and that's her version of getting there...and there is nothing at all wrong with that.

I wish I knew why some people have really dirty minds and other people don't. I learned, and embraced, the fact that I have a very dirty mind and always have. When I stopped repressing and denying it, my filthy imagination started being a perk instead of a shame.

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Re: Ladies, must your brain be turned off to be multi-Orgasmic?

This isn't the question you asked but I'm chiming in nonetheless... nurturing style massage, for me, either helps bring clarity and/or any concerns to the forefront of my mind. And simultaneously makes me physically deeply relaxed and often tired. The action of massage itself can bring emotions to the surface. For all it's wonderful benefits, I can't say massage helps me to become more present or calm the mind when it's racing.

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Re: Ladies, must your brain be turned off to be multi-Orgasmic?

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This isn't the question you asked but I'm chiming in nonetheless... nurturing style massage, for me, either helps bring clarity and/or any concerns to the forefront of my mind. And simultaneously makes me physically deeply relaxed and often tired. The action of massage itself can bring emotions to the surface. For all it's wonderful benefits, I can't say massage helps me to become more present or calm the mind when it's racing.
Actually that was quite helpful as a nurturing neck/shoulder/back massage while she has her head on my chest is part of the ritual we use to relax her to the point of starting more serious foreplay aimed at sex. I have often been confused when she either falls asleep or she doesn't want more serious foreplay to follow. Sometimes when she doesn't want more serious foreplay she will pull me onto her and give me the gift of her body and take pleasure in pleasing me.

You post is an interesting explanation of what might be happening on those nights were her actions confuse me.

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