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post #31 of 52 (permalink) Old 04-21-2017, 09:48 AM
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Not until it dries.

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Leave the wick end pointing out, you'll be fine...
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Curious to know how many ladies can and do masturbate for their man while he watches.
Myself, I have no problem doing so. I still have a fairly toned body for my age. I enjoy sharing.
I do have those days that I want some me time, and just enjoy pleasing myself, alone...
But those days my man shows a little attention to my well being that day, I am gladly willing to give him a show. I like the reaction I get. Watching him get so arroused, I get even more into it. I usually manage to to get a couple of times before he jumps me. On occasion, I can coax him into masturbating with me. I enjoy watching him as much as he likes watching me.
We have been together 33 years. Our relationship is very open. Sex is awsome..
I am hoping other women have what I have...
I am having difficulty figuring out what you are talking about. How would a man become aroused by observing this sort of behavior?

It would seem to me to be offputting. IE: a woman is enjoying herself without any input from me. What am I even for if she can do that for herself? Does that make sense?
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Speak for yourself, Todd.

I am a man. I find watching a woman masturbate to be the most arousing stimulus I have ever seen in my life.

Perhaps I've never worried about my usefulness.
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I am having difficulty figuring out what you are talking about. How would a man become aroused by observing this sort of behavior?

It would seem to me to be offputting. IE: a woman is enjoying herself without any input from me. What am I even for if she can do that for herself? Does that make sense?
I don't think he watches the entire time unless it's mutual masterbation. There is nothing wrong with switching things up a bit and trying new things. That's what keeps sex between a couple entertaining.

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perhaps the best method, get a wooden chair and tie your man up naked facing the bed.
Then take out an array of sex toys, pick one and give a nice show. Then pick another....maybe teasing him a little in between, and enjoy yourself some more.

Finally, finish up riding his lap, with him finally penetrating you while he is still tied to the chair.
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Speak for yourself, Todd.

I am a man. I find watching a woman masturbate to be the most arousing stimulus I have ever seen in my life.

Perhaps I've never worried about my usefulness.
But what is arousing about it? Please explain.

I don't want to think about my wife doing that because she touches the children with those hands.
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But what is arousing about it? Please explain.

I don't want to think about my wife doing that because she touches the children with those hands.
After seeing a few of your posts, I haven't yet decided if you're terribly naive, obnoxiously disingenuous, or deliberately provocative. Time will tell ....

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But what is arousing about it? Please explain.

I don't want to think about my wife doing that because she touches the children with those hands.
If thinking about where her hands have been turns you off, try not to think about where those children emerged from originally!!!
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But what is arousing about it? Please explain.

I don't want to think about my wife doing that because she touches the children with those hands.
Do you not masterbate? Why would be be any different?

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Because the male and female genital areas are night and day as far as cleanliness goes.

Also when a male self-pleasures none of the fluids touch him.
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Because the male and female genital areas are night and day as far as cleanliness goes.

Also when a male self-pleasures none of the fluids touch him.
I'd do some more research about genital cleanliness. A vagina is actually self cleaning and most of the men I know think said fluids are sexy AF. Also, women and men should probably both be washing their hands after masterbation prior to touching their kids lol.

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Renesas...
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I am having difficulty figuring out what you are talking about. How would a man become aroused by observing this sort of behavior?

It would seem to me to be offputting. IE: a woman is enjoying herself without any input from me. What am I even for if she can do that for herself? Does that make sense?
1. Masturbation is a very personal activity. Sharing an orgasm when your partner is not also actively engaged in the sex and is doing nothing more than watching intently is incredibly intimate. Being able and willing to share this aspect of yourself with someone who is not already otherwise engaged means all possible barriers are down.

2. Self-confidence in a woman is very sexy. If the man has the self confidence to know this is just one aspect of a well rounded sex life rather than a replacement for him, he will find this hugely arousing. Moreover, that she is willing to share something so personal, so intimate, such vulnerability, can be a real ego boost rather than cause for concern. Ironically, doing it yourself can be the greatest act of sharing!

3. For most men, a woman in the throes of sexual ecstasy is the most arousing image possible. When participating in the act, one can not concentrate solely on that very arousing image as one is concerned with what one is doing, focusing on doing his best to provide the pleasure. When released from that burden, one can totally enjoy the beauty laid out before you.

I have made this request of my wife, but alas, after 30 years, it's clear it's not going to happen.
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I like to wipe some bodily fluids from my wife's vagina onto my upper lip while I watch her. I never get enough of that wonderful scent.
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