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post #1 of 52 (permalink) Old 04-17-2017, 04:11 PM Thread Starter
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Curious to know how many ladies can and do masturbate for their man while he watches.
Myself, I have no problem doing so. I still have a fairly toned body for my age. I enjoy sharing.
I do have those days that I want some me time, and just enjoy pleasing myself, alone...
But those days my man shows a little attention to my well being that day, I am gladly willing to give him a show. I like the reaction I get. Watching him get so arroused, I get even more into it. I usually manage to to get a couple of times before he jumps me. On occasion, I can coax him into masturbating with me. I enjoy watching him as much as he likes watching me.
We have been together 33 years. Our relationship is very open. Sex is awsome..
I am hoping other women have what I have...
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Yes. It took me 20 years to be confident enough to do it but now its something I love to do. I like to watch him too. It is something so simple that many people neglect early in a relationship, being vulnerable. Thanks for sharing.
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My wife started doing it every weekend in 1979, since the first day she ever masturbated. Then daily since 1992.
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I wish my wife would, your husbands are very fortunate

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Curious to know how many ladies can and do masturbate for their man while he watches.
While he watches what?
I guess it depends what's on on the tele
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Yes, sorry, my wife does this when I tell her to. But I think it's mainly for my benefit. She prefers it when I make her feel a bit "ashamed" about doing it. Not sure why.
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Yes, my fiance likes to watch me, but it's part of having sex together. It's not like he asks me so he can watch as a separate ''show'' or something, although that could be sexy and I'd oblige if he wanted that. But, for us, it's more or less a foreplay type of thing and leads to other things.

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Yes. For us it's just another fun thing during the day. We play at sex for hours every day, so there is plenty of time for her to do this sometime during the evening.

Of course, it helps a lot that she gets to come so many times a day. So many options for play!

Well, not right now. 4 weeks, 2 days to go. The doctor said she can't even masturbate with just her fingers even if she doesn't insert her fingers, even one day early. She asked, specifically about masturbation without insertion.
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Yes. For us it's just another fun thing during the day. We play at sex for hours every day, so there is plenty of time for her to do this sometime during the evening.

Of course, it helps a lot that she gets to come so many times a day. So many options for play!

Well, not right now. 4 weeks, 2 days to go. The doctor said she can't even masturbate with just her fingers even if she doesn't insert her fingers, even one day early. She asked, specifically about masturbation without insertion.
Ahhh, that might be difficult.

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Ya, it hasn't even been two weeks since her hysterectomy and she is already bouncing off the walls.

She insisted on helping me relax, but I'm sure that did not help her relax at all. She is an incessant tease.

I feel so sorry for her.
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I’ve asked my gal to but she just gives me that ‘There is something wrong with you “ Look.

I think I caught her doing it while I sleep next to her a few years back. I lay quietly until she settled done and then asked “Was that fun?” She just pretended to be asleep.
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I’ve asked my gal to but she just gives me that ‘There is something wrong with you “ Look.

I think I caught her doing it while I sleep next to her a few years back. I lay quietly until she settled done and then asked “Was that fun?” She just pretended to be asleep.
Maybe she sleep-masturbated? I once had a major argument in the middle of the night and then great make up sex; all while she was asleep (I hadn't realised at the time). Next morning she couldn't remember any of it.
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When our marriage was good, yes this was something we enjoyed often.

Initially I was very self conscious, but once I saw how much he enjoyed watching I loosened up. Nothing better than knowing you are desired by your partner IMO.

The best was when he would direct me what to do as I performed. I lovd being talked to during since it showed me he was turned on by me and engaged, which made me feel sexy, and then made me further lose inhibitions.

He would less often indulge my desire to watch, but when he did I loved that too.




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My wife does that almost every time we have sex. When I was single I would ask a new sex partner to masturbate for me. Not to get aroused, although I did, but to observe how she gives herself an orgasm. I could see if she liked penetration or clitoral stimulation. How fast, how hard and does she mix up the rhythm or keep it steady. I also learn what her pre orgasm noises and actions are. It is a very good way to learn about a new sex partner, plus you do not need to use lube for intercourse.

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Yes, sorry, my wife does this when I tell her to. But I think it's mainly for my benefit. She prefers it when I make her feel a bit "ashamed" about doing it. Not sure why.
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