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post #61 of 64 (permalink) Old 04-19-2017, 04:31 PM
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Re: My wife has no sex appeal

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You might consider hand writing the first few paragraphs and the last paragraph of what you just posted and giving it to your wife. What a beautiful heartfelt love letter. Perhaps with the spa-day gift cards.

The nice thing about writing it down is she can go back and read it over again when she needs a reminder of your feelings.


I was thinking EXACTLY this as I read what you wrote. Your wife NEEDS to hear this and she NEEDS to be able to hear it over and over and over.

When my husband cheated, he wrote me an apology letter that I kept in my purse for about a year? I think, and I took it out to read every time I needed to.

People don't get a free pass to cheat just because their marriage sucks.

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I was thinking EXACTLY this as I read what you wrote. Your wife NEEDS to hear this and she NEEDS to be able to hear it over and over and over.

When my husband cheated, he wrote me an apology letter that I kept in my purse for about a year? I think, and I took it out to read every time I needed to.
Yes, this is good.

And one or more of the below:

The letter was very creased, very crinkly after being unfolded and refolded so many times.
Was very tear stained, the letters smeared.
Certain words underlined.
Sarcastic words in the margin.

Any snot nose bubbles dripped on the paper were from his nose.....not yours!

This....This is the nub of the stick that pokes me in the eye when the light of day energizes my optic nerve....SunCMars.... The Allegory of the Cave--> On this, I did a '180' and stepped out.

The Lion in Winter. Invictus..By Will, Shall... Saved from harm by my friends.
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Re: My wife has no sex appeal

One more thing that your wife should consider.

SHE should tell you that SHE will wear foundation, makeup, and eyeliner when YOU put some on your ugly mug.

Just like in the olden days of King Louis XIV of France.

What?

This....This is the nub of the stick that pokes me in the eye when the light of day energizes my optic nerve....SunCMars.... The Allegory of the Cave--> On this, I did a '180' and stepped out.

The Lion in Winter. Invictus..By Will, Shall... Saved from harm by my friends.
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Re: My wife has no sex appeal

Ok OP I like you a lot better after your last reply LOL.

Two questions:

Have you guys ever had counseling to talk about the issues from the past?
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How much kid-free time does your wife get?

It's hard to get out of mom mode when you never have a break. My husband (who is now my estranged husband) accused me of always being in mom mode but he almost never helped me with the kids. Not saying that's the case in your house, just putting it out there.

And please, do be careful not to blame her when your eye wanders. That's greasing the slippery slope right there.

Good luck to you both, I hope you are able to have some mutually satisfying conversations on this topic!

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