My wife and I have always been very open with each other. We have been together for 12 years. We have been very happy. She is a great wife and mother. We have 4 kids, who are 10, 4, 4, and 2.
When we met, my wife was 18 and I was 25. She was a virgin when we met, with no dating experience. I had done it all and was ready to settle down.
Now she is confused and wonders what is out there. Mostly sexual, I think. She looks at other men more and masturbates more than she use to. That has not affected our sex life frequency, which is still very frequent. I have however noticed a difference in that the sex doesn't quite feel the same though I cannot pinpoint what it is. Emotion, enthusiasm, perhaps.
She wonders about other men and experiences, what it would be like. She doesn't like having those thoughts. Is this a normal feelings for a 30 year old woman? Or is it a bigger red flag?
When we met, my wife was 18 and I was 25. She was a virgin when we met, with no dating experience. I had done it all and was ready to settle down.
Now she is confused and wonders what is out there. Mostly sexual, I think. She looks at other men more and masturbates more than she use to. That has not affected our sex life frequency, which is still very frequent. I have however noticed a difference in that the sex doesn't quite feel the same though I cannot pinpoint what it is. Emotion, enthusiasm, perhaps.
She wonders about other men and experiences, what it would be like. She doesn't like having those thoughts. Is this a normal feelings for a 30 year old woman? Or is it a bigger red flag?