This has baffled me, I keep letting it go - but then it keeps coming back....
I went through a phase of buying a lot of sexy night gear mainly for myself as I was feeling very unsexy at the time and it gave me confidence when having sex.
A few months later he eventually told me he didn't like me wearing any of those things and preferred me naked or in ordinary shorts and tshirt. The last time I wore something sexy (it was a black baby doll see through affair) he laughed at me and told me not to wear it, it looks silly. :frown2:
Ok fair enough - I was a little hurt but let it go.
Things have been good between us so I am not complaining :. But I was sorting through my clothes and found my box of sexy lingerie and dress up stuff and really missed wearing them, some of them are so pretty and sexy, and it seems such a waste of money just sitting in a box. So last night I said 'I wonder if my sexy things need to come back out?' He was quiet for a long time and then said 'I'm not so bothered but if you want to wear them then wear them.'. :|
Its no big deal but it puzzles me why he doesn't find these things sexy, sometimes my insecurities come to the surface and I think its me that he doesn't want to see in them. When has shown me porn films of the things he likes they nearly always have the kind of underwear I have in my cupboard. .
I am currently 7lbs overweight and honestly do not look overweight, just nicely curvy.
Any thoughts?
I went through a phase of buying a lot of sexy night gear mainly for myself as I was feeling very unsexy at the time and it gave me confidence when having sex.
A few months later he eventually told me he didn't like me wearing any of those things and preferred me naked or in ordinary shorts and tshirt. The last time I wore something sexy (it was a black baby doll see through affair) he laughed at me and told me not to wear it, it looks silly. :frown2:
Ok fair enough - I was a little hurt but let it go.
Things have been good between us so I am not complaining :. But I was sorting through my clothes and found my box of sexy lingerie and dress up stuff and really missed wearing them, some of them are so pretty and sexy, and it seems such a waste of money just sitting in a box. So last night I said 'I wonder if my sexy things need to come back out?' He was quiet for a long time and then said 'I'm not so bothered but if you want to wear them then wear them.'. :|
Its no big deal but it puzzles me why he doesn't find these things sexy, sometimes my insecurities come to the surface and I think its me that he doesn't want to see in them. When has shown me porn films of the things he likes they nearly always have the kind of underwear I have in my cupboard. .
I am currently 7lbs overweight and honestly do not look overweight, just nicely curvy.
Any thoughts?