This is how I feel about my wife. She is currently pregnant and I'm recovering from a masturbation addiction.
Now, I understand that she is not always in the mood for sex (especially since she is pregnant) but she told me a couple months ago and she thinks BJs are disgusting and she doesn't want to give them to me anymore.
This makes me upset because she used to give me Bjs before we were married and also during the first part of our marriage. I feel like I was scammed......
Now the issue is....What should I do? I really love her and we already have 1 son together. She is due to have the second baby in May. I have always did what she wanted to do sexually
I am also open to any tricks that anyone has that may change her mind...... Please Help!
my first thought, maybe during your masturbation addiction, did she catch you watching oral sex videos during, looking at bj pictures, saying "suck my _ _ _ k" while playing with yourself?
Maybe it struck a nerve and the thought of oral, just reminds her of you pleasuring yourself, maybe while ignoring her?
secondly, not sure if you still enjoying every other kind of sex, just restricted in that one area (I'ld say enjoy what you have, and maybe bring it up every now and then and maybe it will turn around at some point..) pushing too much will just tick her off more....
And as far as doing whatever she wants sexually, maybe the next time she asks for something, offer a barter... oral for ????
As far as tricks.... might work for one... but probably wouldn't help in the long run... now one I might point out is when giving her oral or even any other form or sex.... bring her to the brink of cumming, and stop... repeat a few times... then... offer, if you get bj, she can have orgasm... (make sure all the batteries in her toys are dead, so at best she'ld have to steal them from remote to finish herself off) don't finish yourself off without her though, tell her you'll wait until she gets off. You might only get lucky when you've got her really horny (or drunk or both)
swollen, painful breasts from lactating, and a baby not nursing (and pump magically not working, at least temporatilly, but you'll fix it latter "just for her") might have the same effect... offer to relieve the pressure in exchange for relieving yours either before or after...
Also.. even though not willing to do oral... would she go for hand job.... with lube, can be just as enjoyable (almost)