thinking of getting a sex partner whilst married
ive posted a few times last year, long story short.
Been married 1 1/2 years only sex 3 times and more info below,
- tied counselling (5 sessions)
- we argue/fight but id say same as normal couples
- wife has depression
- sex only about 3 times in last 500 days and worse still 5 times in last 3 years
-still love her dearly
-talked a few times about the non sex issue and she doesnt get hornt anymore at all
- spoke tonight openly again and said i need sex and would prefer with u, or i even hinted at a threesome to get her involved
-hinted at getting a sex partner as im not turned on by paying for sex.
i actally feel that ive tried everything and at least i have been honest and communicated, I love her/our daughter/our house and want to stay but i just need sex.
i actually have 2 male friends but they are in their 50's who are still happily married but have a sex partner once a fortnight as there wives just dont get horny, this has been going on for 7 years. one wife got a disabled daughter and hasnt been able to more or less have sex since and she was upset and traumatised, the other wifes son died and hasnt had sex since.
its a risk, but im manning up a bit and more or less telling my wife that i cant except no sex in marriage anymore...thoughts?