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Re: My husband doesn't like touching or kissing my boobs. Is this normal?

Have you asked him why?
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Re: My husband doesn't like touching or kissing my boobs. Is this normal?

Other than this, how is the rest of your sex life? Does he make you feel desired in other ways?

Some men are boob men, some men are ass men. Different men are turned on by different things. And some men don't enjoy giving oral. Hopefully, those men make up for it in other ways. My guy doesn't enjoy giving oral, but he more than compensates for it in other ways. Some men say they don't enjoy giving oral, when it's really that they don't think they're very good at it and so it intimidates him.

What DOES he like/find attractive about women?

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Re: My husband doesn't like touching or kissing my boobs. Is this normal?

What? Is he.....nuts?

Maybe in his first year his Momma fed him sour milk from her mammaries.

What udder stupidity.

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Re: My husband doesn't like touching or kissing my boobs. Is this normal?

Nope. Not normal. At all. Speaking as a man, I love boobs. Boobs are awesome. A cups, B cups, C cups, D cups...
It sounds like your husband might be a very low sex drive person. Does he have a stressful job? Have there been any ongoing family issues? Have you ever communicated your desire for your husband to pay more attention to your body/chest?



Side note: Please talk to my wife sometime. I'd love to be allowed to give her boobs some more attention. A lot more attention...
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What DOES he like/find attractive about women?

Maybe it's not women he finds attractive, but is just too deep in the closet to realize it yet. I've heard a lot of these types of stories where a husband/father can't admit homosexuality to himself or others until MUCH later in life...
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Re: My husband doesn't like touching or kissing my boobs. Is this normal?

Sounds like you have a long overdue conversation in your near future. Ask what your H likes.

Ask your H which parts of you body he like touching the most. Ask him what part of your body he likes kissing the most. Ask him if there are any things he is afraid to bring up with you that he would like to do with his mouth or tongue on you and then tell him that you will not be judgemental about anything he says (and mean it.)

Ask you H what parts of your body he likes to look at the most? Ask him how you can pose for him or dress for him so that he likes looking at you more.

Then ask ask him what he likes you to touch the most, kiss the most, tongue the most. Ask him what parts of his body he likes you look at the most.

Rather than be concerned, use this as motivation to become more intimate with your H.

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Re: My husband doesn't like touching or kissing my boobs. Is this normal?

Do you have hairy nipples or something? If not, no, NOT normal

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Other than this, how is the rest of your sex life? Does he make you feel desired in other ways?

Some men are boob men, some men are ass men. Different men are turned on by different things. And some men don't enjoy giving oral. Hopefully, those men make up for it in other ways. My guy doesn't enjoy giving oral, but he more than compensates for it in other ways. Some men say they don't enjoy giving oral, when it's really that they don't think they're very good at it and so it intimidates him.

What DOES he like/find attractive about women?
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Hubby doesn't touch your boobs, you chose the username ICEPRINCESS. Hmm...
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Simple - not normal.

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I've had boyfriends in the past and they would automatically lift up my blouse and start kissing and playing with my boobs for a long time without me having to beg for it!!!
Perhaps your husband could have an aversion to boobs because an early girlfriend scolded him extremely harshly for behaving the same way your past boyfriends did.

Perhaps you husband does not like to be compared to your past boyfriends in the event you brag about how much you liked other people doing that to you.

Your husband may not be aroused by your boobs as he receives sexual validation in other ways (example: him controlling you).

Regardless of your husband's reason is for liking or not liking something about you, are you able to accept him for who he is as opposed to who you want him to be?
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Re: My husband doesn't like touching or kissing my boobs. Is this normal?

Nope diffinently not normal. Start playing with them during sex and go crazy wild if that doesn't click with him you need to have a serious talk

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Other than this, how is the rest of your sex life? Does he make you feel desired in other ways?

Some men are boob men, some men are ass men.
Some men are just boobs or asses. Some both.

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