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Yes 29 63.04%
No 13 28.26%
neither answer applies 4 8.70%
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post #76 of 80 (permalink) Old 05-22-2017, 05:53 PM
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Nope I don't consider my sexual fantasies inappropriate just fun

The real question is do others consider them inappropriate...probably so but doesn't matter to me. My sexuality belongs to me alone
I didn't answer the poll, because I think the same way.
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The way I see it, fantasies are just a way for us to explore our emotional reactions. To know how we emotionally respond to a set scenario. If your willing to let your mind wander in a fantasy, you will then begin to understand how you emotionally respond in that scenario. Me personally though, I also want to know what the appeal is for those who fantasize about things that make my stomach turn.

I fantasize about all manner of things. BDSM, infidelity, beastiality, incest, murder, rape, and some darker things that I will not mention here. I have no desire to do any of them except for BDSM(it really turns my wife on and i love that...). I just mill them over in my mind, and I pay attention to how I feel; I pay attention to how I emotionally respond to them.

As it turns out, I can get turned on by a lot of things that society would crucify me for. So I take that information and assume that I am pretty ****ed up in the head. But if I am that ****ed up in the head, then their must be a lot of people that are just as ****ed up. So how else can I interpret it than to conclude that there are a hell of a lot of people that are just ****ed up in the head? Maybe most of us are ****ed up. Maybe most of us are ****ed up. How the hell could I judge someone if I am just as ****ed up as they are?

**** that nonsense... they are people, no different than i. If the thought of them being slammed to the floor and violated by alien tenticles or the family pet turns them on, amd that makes them ****ed up in the head, then I guess they are just as ****ed up as i am, considering the bull**** that runs between my own ears.

And if I am going to love myself, then how could I not love them?

If you cannot accept that your nature is ****ed beyond belief, how will you ever be able to accept someone who is just as ****ed up as you?

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You need to turn that fantasy into a reality Dawg. In my view it wouldn't be cheating. For a man to cheat on his wife, he has to have a wife to cheat on. You don't have a wife.
Thanks but no thanks. In my fantasy the sex is good. In real life it never has been. With anyone else. I do not need to spoil my fantasy by allowing cruel reality to intrude. I don't need more experience with failure and inadequacy.

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I think anything goes in the fantasy realm. Because that is what, precisely, it is - fantasy. If one happens to have fantasies that would be deemed deeply inappropriate in reality then I would say the line would only be crossed if the person's reality was in any way affected (tried to act out the fantasy, became obsessive etc)

I think a big part of the enjoyment derived from fantasies is that they are so often illicit.
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U come across a porno that's hot. They are ur wife or gf or family member. I have no desire to have a sexual relationship with anyone in my family or elsewhere only my wife... But doesn't mean I don't see a video that makes u excited to hear or want to see others nude. Just don't act on them and ur fine.

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