Re: Women & Orgasms..... How often?????
i know what you are getting at...my husband and i had this very conversation about a month ago. he just didnt understand why i would have sex without the payout. and if i didnt have a pay out, what was he doing.
i really offer no other explaination other than, i am different, i dont orgasm more than 2/3 times a year. i do like sex and sexual activity. i enjoy nothing more than the pure act of sex.
that is my pay off. yes an orgasm is nice, but i like touching and being touched. there is nothing wrong with me medically. i am just born this way...my g-spot is farther back, and maybe having kids young also aided in it happening less often.
if i didnt like sex i would not particapate in it. its the closeness...it still feels good it doesnt change how i feel or the feeling of having sex.
that is my explaination, i hope it made sense. and if your wife says its ok, than its ok. just have fun anyways. its not a failure, you cant be so sensitive about it.
maybe try oral on her before actual sex. sometimes being so sensitive makes it happen again.
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