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Just a little story. Just a story....Not looking for advise.
In my push to get sex back into my sexless marriage, we have been having sex more often but not enough.
A few weeks ago we had sex. It was very obvious when my wife hit the big O. Her whole body shook uncontrollably.
A two weeks later no sex. My wife knows that when I get grumpy what it is about. So I sit down for breakfast grumpy and my wife gives me......."We need to talk, I do not mind having sex with you but (insert lame excuse)"
So the other night we had sex again. She had an O. It was not all that obvious but I could tell sort of. It only took about a half an hour or so. It kind of bugged me it was not an intense one so I asked her are you sure and she said "yes".
So I was thinking and it bugged me a few days later. Did she fake it so I would just finish up? Now after 20 years she is still very conservative about sex and talking about it. So I asked her if she faked it the other day. Her answer blew me away. She said as if she was teaching me something in sex ed......"I have orgasms in different places. Sometimes it is in one place, sometimes it is in another, sometimes it is in both places." I then realized crap, I have been doing ok. She never tells me what she wants in bed or sex ect.
But what I find funny is after a g-spot orgasm she tells me "I do not mind having sex with you."
OK, let's be honest. If it was an organ anywhere else in the body that didn't show up on an x-ray, a CT scan or an MRI and that if you took a cadaver and sectioned it on a microtome you couldn't find, people would say:
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Can you rokker Romani chib, pal? Aye, aye, brother!
What's Weshenjuggalslomomengreskeytemskeytudlogueri? I don't know what you say, brother.
Then you don't jin Romani chib...
OK, let's be honest. If it was an organ anywhere else in the body that didn't show up on an x-ray, a CT scan or an MRI and that if you took a cadaver and sectioned it on a microtome you couldn't find, people would say:
"It's a myth".
Just saying...
So just because you cant prove it scientifically it does not exist.
That's what an atheist says.
Now do not slam me folks. I am not a religious freak.
So just because you cant prove it scientifically it does not exist.
That's what an atheist says.
Now do not slam me folks. I am not a religious freak.
Just saying...
But if it's a physical structure in the body, it has to have a physical existence. It either is, or is not present. If it's a psychological construct, fine, no problem. But to describe a psychological construct as a physical organ doesn't help anyone.
It's no use a woman thinking that she's deficient because she thinks she doesn't seem to have a G-spot if she wasn't actually born with one but has to create it herself.
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Can you rokker Romani chib, pal? Aye, aye, brother!
What's Weshenjuggalslomomengreskeytemskeytudlogueri? I don't know what you say, brother.
Then you don't jin Romani chib...
But if it's a physical structure in the body, it has to have a physical existence. It either is, or is not present. If it's a psychological construct, fine, no problem. But to describe a psychological construct as a physical organ doesn't help anyone.
It's no use a woman thinking that she's deficient because she thinks she doesn't seem to have a G-spot if she wasn't actually born with one but has to create it herself.
Sorry, I made a stupid statement. I think that I get too relaxed on this site at times.
On a more serious note, I realize that there are a lot of people that are unable to have an orgasm at all.
Just a little story. Just a story....Not looking for advise.
In my push to get sex back into my sexless marriage, we have been having sex more often but not enough.
A few weeks ago we had sex. It was very obvious when my wife hit the big O. Her whole body shook uncontrollably.
A two weeks later no sex. My wife knows that when I get grumpy what it is about. So I sit down for breakfast grumpy and my wife gives me......."We need to talk, I do not mind having sex with you but (insert lame excuse)"
So the other night we had sex again. She had an O. It was not all that obvious but I could tell sort of. It only took about a half an hour or so. It kind of bugged me it was not an intense one so I asked her are you sure and she said "yes".
So I was thinking and it bugged me a few days later. Did she fake it so I would just finish up? Now after 20 years she is still very conservative about sex and talking about it. So I asked her if she faked it the other day. Her answer blew me away. She said as if she was teaching me something in sex ed......"I have orgasms in different places. Sometimes it is in one place, sometimes it is in another, sometimes it is in both places." I then realized crap, I have been doing ok. She never tells me what she wants in bed or sex ect.
But what I find funny is after a g-spot orgasm she tells me "I do not mind having sex with you."
LOL.
For me as well, orgasms from the same "spot" can differ in intensity on any given encounter.
I dunno, I'm huge into "self exploration" and have read about the few different pleasure zones in the vagina and I definitely have an area, when aroused, that is raised and hard and if applied pressure makes me jump...call it what you want, I call it awesome! Posted via Mobile Device
Since the G-spot is only a myth, its time for me to write my first scientific paper on the Sock Spot. I will even have very easy to use instructions for finding it
To ogeesh, I can tell you the g spot is for real. Yes I have experienced it and so have lots of other women I have spoken with.
It is very hard for the guys to find because it doesn't exist until it gets rubbed. When it appears it is anywhere between the size of a pea and a walnut. Then the woman gets a strong feeling of having to urinate. Once she gets over this she will have the most mind-blowing full body orgasm ever! It is not just a theory, Dr G proved it in a laboratory setting.
No g spot confirmed sort of ... 
