Re: Husband & Wife Sex - How often is normal?
Married 39 years (got married at 16 & 17).
It really depends on the week. When she is on her period, I get hand-jobs (which she does VERY well!!) On normal weeks, 3 or 4 times. I give her oral as often as I can, she will give it to me as part of foreplay once a week or so.
It is different when we take a romantic trip. On our 39th anniversary trip to Cancun, I gave her oral around 5 times and we had sex 6 times.
The marriage bed must be a place of mutuality—the husband seeking to satisfy his wife, the wife seeking to satisfy her husband. Marriage is not a place to "stand up for your rights." Marriage is a decision to serve the other, whether in bed or out. 1 Corinthians 7:2 (The Message)