Re: marriage = open legs
There are plenty of wives who are treated like a Queen, loved beautifully and still don't want sex.... I was one of them for a time.....in a smaller sense -not overly so, he got it faithfully once a week anyhow (and I was very into it) -but I could have done so very much more. Hate myself for that.
I have no complaints about my husband other than he was too damn passive. He wanted more, and didn't show it enough, never argued with me, I was oblivious and off in the clouds somewhere.
I have a GF who , quite frankly, her wonderful husband ought to leave her ....she has reduced him from a happy man to one of sadness, I can see it in his eyes when we visit. Known them both since high school, she raves about their wonderful marraige on FB for all her friends to see, how much she loves him, but I get to hear the real story....when he wants sex, she doesn't care, she isn't feeling it , to her it is nothing more than a chore, she has told him NO... he has cried in front of her, I asked her how she felt about that ......she just answered "I didn't feel like it". My temperature was rising, I told her if I was married to her, I'd leave her. (somehow she still talks to me)
He is a good christian family man, sticks by her side , always there for her, for thier kids, never raises his voice, even she says he is wonderful, she called me crying over his health one time but still..... SEX........ she ain't interested, doesn't need it, doesn't want it, in this sense, she has no giving in her, she said when she does do it (maybe twice a month), she just lays there..... I feel soooo bad for him. ......
Too much of a nice guy...that's his problem. He'll never leave her, she knows it. SHe needs to catch the Op's message here , shame on her for allowing her man to suffer like that.
You think the more aggressive men are going to stick around with a fridgid wife, they will at least cause some stink about it ....as they should. The nice guys are the ones who get screwed, or in this case, are hardly getting screwed.