Ladies - How did you get past the inhibitions
My wife is relatively open about sex however, she still gets shy (at times) with things that get her to admit to her own sexuality and exploring new things. She (like many women) are afflicted with the Nice Girls don't....attitude. Whether it be exploring erotic material, anal, new toys she gets inhibited. Now all of these things she has expressed an interest in at some point but, then later she gets bashful. Even things we have done before. Oddly she considers herself to be rather liberal but, I think years of Catholic school has taken its toll. My wife is still is effected by this stuff and believe many other women are as well. I recently talked about engaging in some "anal play" with toys as i have heard of the pleasure of prostrate massage. She can't get past the ick factor. These inhibitions also surface in other areas. Is there hope.
Let's try to make this into a discussion about anal/toys per se but one to help eachother by offering help in this threads tittle.
Does anyone have success stories or suggestions?
Last edited by tjohnson; 06-02-2012 at 07:03 AM.
Reason: clarify and asking again