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Hang on, hang on, hang on. I think I missed something here.
Where exactly is the marketing??
I can't find it..
He is comparing me to a "Marketing" scheme. He thinks Im pushing having threesomes as some sort of product endorsement. He must be in some sort of Business school. His arguments are becoming very thin sounding.
Yeah but all yo've done is ask questions, given an opion, (which we all have) and told of you experience, (which we've all done too). And what this forum is all about..
I've never had a threesome, but have offered it to my wife as in a MFM.
She said no not interested, but if she were she would prefer a FMF anyway.
anyway, I just don't see it in the cards for us, but we do like going to a swingers club and having sex in front of others and also watching others, we jsut don't share.
So it's a fair trade for us...no one else but open sex in front of others is a lot of fun for us both.
So my H and I are curious to have a 3sum with another woman, as much as I want to I don't want him to like it too much and not want me anymore. Has anyone tried it? Bad idea? Posted via Mobile Device
I don't speak from experience, but I can tell you from someone I know that has had a 3sum. Married couple, mid 30's decided to add another female, wife's friend. Well, the threesome part went well, everyone had a good time. Then things got weird in the morning as she spent the night with them. Almost immediately after waking up and sobering up, his wife's jealously set in. I do not know all the details, but it was not pretty. Needless to say they are no longer friends and I am sure that does/did create problems in the marriage. My advice to you, since you already have issues with your husband liking things too much, I think you would best to avoid the situation. I am sure there are many success stories out there, but for you I think it would end up bad, based upon what you have said.
I don't speak from experience, but I can tell you from someone I know that has had a 3sum. Married couple, mid 30's decided to add another female, wife's friend. Well, the threesome part went well, everyone had a good time. Then things got weird in the morning as she spent the night with them. Almost immediately after waking up and sobering up, his wife's jealously set in. I do not know all the details, but it was not pretty. Needless to say they are no longer friends and I am sure that does/did create problems in the marriage. My advice to you, since you already have issues with your husband liking things too much, I think you would best to avoid the situation. I am sure there are many success stories out there, but for you I think it would end up bad, based upon what you have said.
It was the exact opposite for us. My wife and I had always talked about doing this, a threesome, but had never gotten past the talking about it while having sex part, which was hot in itself.
One night my wife told me she was bringing home her girlfriend after work. I didnt even get what she was on about. Well we all ended up going out for a few drinks. We all had a fun night, and came back to our house. We were sitting on the sofa watching the television and my wife asked me if I found her gielfriend pretty.
I said yes, after all, I am a man, and she was pretty. All of us were pretty lit, so my wife and this girl begin to make out. Kissing and then tops come off, and they are sucking each others nipples.....planned? Im sure, my wife has always had bi tendences. So Im almost sure they had experimented before, which I have no problem with.
Well before I know it, they are both between my knees with my zipper down, and Im getting head from them both. Without going into much detail, it ended up in the bedroom with me enjoying screwing them both, which we did off and on all night long. My wife ended up telling me to shoot my load inside of her, which I did. Later on, her girlfriend blew me and got under us while I screwed my wife...and yes, I shot another load into my wife.
Long story short..we ended up waking up in the morning, having breakfast, and seeing her off to work. There was no jealous feelings at all.
A few weeks later, a friend of mine came over, and we both pleased my wife. She really enjoyed having a man at both ends, and yes, we both shot our loads in her. Thats what started us to doing threesomes, and later couples. As I have said...its not for everyone, and Im not saying everybody should do it.
But we are happy, and in love, and use those experiences to make our sex lives even more exciting than they already were. You dont have to like it or agree with it, but thats our story.
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Keep playing. This kind of banter is funny.
