How do you ask your wife to drop 30 pounds?
The reason I posted this here is that it related directly with sex and intimacy.
I love my wife and she has recently been taking better care of herself but I'm a bit impatient. I have been in good shape for the past 15 years but great shape for the past 2 or 3 years and I want her to feel the benefits but I also have my own selfish reasons: you have more energy, you feel less depressed, you can have sex forever and not get tired, you feel everything better (senses seem heightened), you're physically more flexible, another sex bonus, there, you actually feel the desire more often, you sleep better, you smell and taste better, you are more open and courageous, your self-esteem improves, etc, blah, blah, blah.
So, all you sensitive women: how do encourage her to drop another 30 pounds and increase her exercise intensity? or, should I just leave it alone and love her for who she, which I do btw, and hope for the best.