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Doesn't mean it IS urine, either. My point would be that there's no way her kidneys should have been able to produce that volume of urine, especially if her bladder was emptied prior to sex.
All I can say is that I've tasted it, multiple times from multiple women. However, I've never done a taste test to urine... Not going to go there, though.
As FOAL says, if we're all enjoying it, I guess it doesn't really matter.
Doesn't mean it IS urine, either. My point would be that there's no way her kidneys should have been able to produce that volume of urine, especially if her bladder was emptied prior to sex.
The liquid that comes out of a woman's bladder is urine. Even if it doesn't look like urine. Even if it doesn't smell like urine. Even if it's only been a short time since she last urinated.
I'm no doctor. I'm just a guy with a basic understanding of human anatomy who is capable of calling a spade, a spade.
I agree, a "basic" understanding of human anatomy and apparently how to look things up on the internet. "The Skene's gland, also known as the paraurethral gland, found in females, is homologous to the prostate gland in males." From wikipedia. There is much more research out there on this. While there are no positive conclusions, there is ample anecdotal evidence it's not pee. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion not their own facts.
I'm no doctor. I'm just a guy with a basic understanding of human anatomy who is capable of calling a spade, a spade.
Have you actually experienced a woman squirting, or are you simply stating what you've read/know?
All I know is what I've seen. I've felt the swelling of a woman's g-spot just prior to her ejaculating all over, and do it repeatedly and consistently. I've tasted and smelled the fluid.
"Biochemically, the fluid emitted during orgasm showed all the parameters found in prostate plasma in contrast to the values measured in voided urine. CONCLUSIONS: Data of the two women presented further underline the concept of the female prostate both as an organ itself and as the source of female ejaculation."
I agree, a "basic" understanding of human anatomy and apparently how to look things up on the internet. "The Skene's gland, also known as the paraurethral gland, found in females, is homologous to the prostate gland in males." From wikipedia. There is much more research out there on this. While there are no positive conclusions, there is ample anecdotal evidence it's not pee. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion not their own facts.
The Skene's gland has already been mentioned on this thread. And you are correct that it may be homologous to the male prostate. However, if you think that it's capable of storing great quantities of liquid, and then expelling them several feet, you're nuts. If you can find any, please feel free to post any facts that support your position.
Have you actually experienced a woman squirting, or are you simply stating what you've read/know?
I both know that women have bladders, and I've seen them urinating.
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All I know is what I've seen.
And that's the problem. You've seen liquid coming out of a woman. You don't know where it comes from. You don't know what the anatomy is. You don't think that it tastes like what you imagine urine tastes like. You would like for it to not be urine, therefore, it can't be urine. You'll have to pardon me if I stick with the facts over your cognitive dissonance.
"Biochemically, the fluid emitted during orgasm showed all the parameters found in prostate plasma in contrast to the values measured in voided urine. CONCLUSIONS: Data of the two women presented further underline the concept of the female prostate both as an organ itself and as the source of female ejaculation."
Yes. There have been studies that inconclusively suggest that A SMALL AMOUNT of ejaculate may not be urine. I defy you to find a single person of science who will state that the pints of liquid you've seen sprayed during orgasm is anything other than urine.
I both know that women have bladders, and I've seen them urinating.
And that's the problem. You've seen liquid coming out of a woman. You don't know where it comes from. You don't know what the anatomy is. You don't think that it tastes like what you imagine urine tastes like. You would like for it to not be urine, therefore, it can't be urine. You'll have to pardon me if I stick with the facts over your cognitive dissonance.
Yes. There have been studies that inconclusively suggest that A SMALL AMOUNT of ejaculate may not be urine. I defy you to find a single person of science who will state that the pints of liquid you've seen sprayed during orgasm is anything other than urine.
Except you haven't shown any "facts" or proof... Why don't YOU show some facts?
Except you haven't shown any "facts" or proof... Why don't YOU show some facts?
It is a fact that the only organ capable of storing a large quantity of liquid anywhere near a woman's vagina is her bladder. Why can't you comprehend that? My argument begins and ends there.
It doesn't matter what it smells like. It doesn't matter what it looks like. It doesn't matter what it tastes like. Any woman that is expelling large quantities of liquid from her urethra is, by definition, urinating. QED
However; when I perform oral sex on her, there are times when she will stop me, or move my attention to another part of her telling me I'm going to make her pee. I've never questioned that, but after reading a bit recently, I'm beginning to wonder if that may be her beginning to build to a squirting orgasm. She's never squirted before, so neither of us would know how to recognize that.
She's never told me it was unpleasant, so I don't know if she is just afraid of making a mess, or if it was unpleasant - I'll explore this question with her. I want to suggest to her that we move somewhere where she is not afraid of making a mess and just go with it and see what happens.
Well ... lots of debate on what squirting is.
I've never had squirting happen to me, but I do sometimes get sensations that I need to urinate when engaging in oral and even manual sex. Pushing past it for me usually ends up in me having to go run in to the bathroom full force. Since I have gotten UTIs before I am probably hyper-vigilant about this. The clitoris and its 'legs' and your bladder/urethra are all in that same region and they all end up being affected in one way or another when you are sexually aroused.
So, I think you are on the right path in just discussing with your wife. Get some towels and have them on hand if she wants to try. If she indicates in a session that she wants to try, then just see what happens if you continue stimulating her.
If she doesn't want to try, then respect that and let her know you would be willing to try it if she ever feels like it.
I know that I don't want to try, because it feels very uncomfortable (and I want things to feel good, you know ), I don't want to have to worry about getting another UTI, and it's also disconcerting to think that what you may be doing is actually wetting the bed or 'expressing your glands' (reminds me of what they do with dogs when they go to the groomer). Horrible thoughts, I know. But sometimes we have those kinds of thoughts about things and it doesn't make them get better if we are pushed or prodded in to things.
If you do try it, and nothing happens - well, no big deal. I've done a bit reading on this topic - I had never even heard of it until more recently. I am not convinced that every woman is capable of 'squirting' as I would speculate it may depend on physiological factors in a woman's particular anatomy - just like the G spot. There have been studies done, but on very small numbers of women. Most evidence does point to the emptying of the skene's glands (part of the urethral system) or urination or combination of both, as it appears that the liquid does come from the urethra - which might explain why it can sometimes be expelled with a lot of force. Who knows? Just another mysterious thing about women to puzzle out - and it's a mystery to men and women both.
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Thank you, Enchantment. As always, your post is very very thoughtful and helpful.
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And there's always "GOOGLE" to see videos of it!
I understand what you're saying, but I prefer Bing . I'll look again, but mostly I want to hear the first hand experience such as FOAL and Enchantment have given so well.
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