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Old 02-10-2009, 08:27 AM   #16 (permalink)
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That there is more to my body than my nipples and clitoris.

There is a lot more to sex than having an orgasm. Stop keeping this as your only focus.

I don't like planning sex all the time. It makes me anxious and gets me out of the mood. Spontaneous is best.

Touching your member or going down on you isn't foreplay!

I'd love to have sex sometimes without having an orgasm. It will frustrate the hell out of me and make me want sex even more.
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Old 02-10-2009, 10:22 AM   #17 (permalink)
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Men are simple and not mind readers.

You say "I am going to bed"
To him that translates "I'm tired so don't even try anything"

What you should say is "come screw me", he'll understand then
This is very true !! and ill have to try tonight lol !!!
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Old 02-10-2009, 12:00 PM   #18 (permalink)
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This is very true !! and ill have to try tonight lol !!!
As a husband/man, if my wife while we were watching TV or whatever just said "hey, lets go upstairs and I want you to screw my brains out"

I would be like

He'll love it...men suck at getting subtle hints, we really do.
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Old 02-12-2009, 03:48 PM   #19 (permalink)
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Walking by and grabbing my boobs IS NOT foreplay! I wish he was more aggressive in bed.
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That what turns me on one day doesnt mean it works the next!!


THAT explains so much, to say the female is confusing and complicated is a gross understatement
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Old 02-16-2009, 09:31 AM   #21 (permalink)
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Well its true ..i can be so turned on by something one day and the next nothing lol if i cant understand it ha ha you men have no chance really have you

thinking it must be a hormone thing .....
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Old 02-16-2009, 10:06 AM   #22 (permalink)
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Could I get at least 10 minutes of foreplay, some romance, oral sex and hopefully an orgasm at least once a year?
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Old 02-16-2009, 10:19 AM   #23 (permalink)
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Men are simple and not mind readers.

You say "I am going to bed"
To him that translates "I'm tired so don't even try anything"

What you should say is "come screw me", he'll understand then
so easy to read and ive practised saying it !! but i bottle out when im in front of my husband !!
i have a mental block!!
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write 'do' on one palm and 'me' on the other....then give him a 'palm flash'...no words needed
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write 'do' on one palm and 'me' on the other....then give him a 'palm flash'...no words needed

:smthu mbup:

Ive not thought of that

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Ive not thought of that

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Old 02-16-2009, 12:32 PM   #27 (permalink)
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My current husband is great...so no complaints there, but I'll touch on a few things with my ex...

Showing me your rock hard member does nothing for me except make me think...Great! You're all worked up and ready to go, there goes any chance of foreplay or time for me to get warmed up and ready!

Oh yeah...and for me...I'm really not into the marathon sex...about 30 mins is perfect to me...enough time for foreplay and a great climax, but not so long that I start to get sore...that could just be my personal preference, I'm not sure.

And good breath is a must!!! And that means for me too. If I don't feel like I have fresh breath, I will not be in the mood for a makeout session!
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Old 02-16-2009, 12:47 PM   #28 (permalink)
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write 'do' on one palm and 'me' on the other....then give him a 'palm flash'...no words needed
Oh good Lord, if my wife did something like that...
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Old 02-16-2009, 01:02 PM   #29 (permalink)
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write 'do' on one palm and 'me' on the other....then give him a 'palm flash'...no words needed
OMG I can't stop laughing... that's awesome. Even better than my text message saying "How about Burgers and a Blowjob for dinner??".
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Old 02-16-2009, 01:35 PM   #30 (permalink)
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OMG I can't stop laughing... that's awesome. Even better than my text message saying "How about Burgers and a Blowjob for dinner??".

Um...again, if my wife sent me that text message...
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