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Old 02-16-2009, 01:39 PM   #31 (permalink)
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Um...again, if my wife sent me that text message...
It worked!! No surprise...
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Old 02-16-2009, 02:00 PM   #32 (permalink)
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It worked!! No surprise...
No kidding, you won't find a red blooded male on the planet it wouldn't work for. Your husband is a lucky guy!
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Old 02-16-2009, 02:23 PM   #33 (permalink)
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Um...again, if my wife sent me that text message...
thats pretty cool !!
i can do text messages really well !! emails great !! even love letters i just cant say stuff face to face ...i bottle it ha ha !!
im gonna have to work on it ..dont get me wrong we have a fab love life id just love to be able to say take me to bed and screw me !! face to face
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Old 02-16-2009, 03:07 PM   #34 (permalink)
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No kidding, you won't find a red blooded male on the planet it wouldn't work for. Your husband is a lucky guy!
yeah, the sex is great, and we are great parents... we make an awesome team. Beyond that, not so good. If everything else could be that good, our marriage would actually survive!! I'm also lucky in that he won't just take, he always makes sure I get in a couple good orgasms too. It's a win-win situation.

Humpty- just do it... You will feel great to get it out. Put on a long robe with nothing underneath, stand in front of the TV, open the robe and tell him you need it NOW.
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Old 02-16-2009, 03:51 PM   #35 (permalink)
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OMG I can't stop laughing... that's awesome. Even better than my text message saying "How about Burgers and a Blowjob for dinner??".

Did you give him the option to select the order of events?
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Old 02-17-2009, 12:56 AM   #36 (permalink)
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Did you give him the option to select the order of events?
We both had the same idea...
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Old 02-17-2009, 12:26 PM   #37 (permalink)
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Funny, you guys. Back to the original question. I'm pretty open with my husband. I try to use positive reinforcement as opposed to criticism. He's very passionate and I enjoy it. Last night he spent time talking to me and holdiing my hand for awhile. I knew he wanted it (he always does) yet he was patient. I told him how much I appreciated it and I really enjoyed that form of foreplay. He beamed.

I guess if there's one thing I'd like to tell him is I'd like for him to trim up his midsection some. He already knows this, though. However, I love him the same with or without the belly.
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Old 02-24-2009, 09:10 PM   #38 (permalink)
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OK, OK, back to the original question... sorry Mommy22. My comment would be- if you intend to deprive me of my much loved, always lacking, sleep, you had better make it worth my while...
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No kidding, you won't find a red blooded male on the planet it wouldn't work for. Your husband is a lucky guy!

HA... I did that. His comment: "do you what?" and "honey, you are in the way of the TV, could you scoot over please?"

When I explained "do me" was sex he said "does it have to be now? can't it wait?"

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Old 02-26-2009, 02:37 PM   #40 (permalink)
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Foreplay, desire, boob grabbing is NOT foreplay. Tell me what turns you on, tell me the truth about why you don't want sex. And "if you don't want me, i'm going to go find someone who will"
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boob grabbing is NOT foreplay.
Its not??!!!!

Im in trouble...
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Old 02-26-2009, 03:34 PM   #42 (permalink)
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Stand in front of me with nothing on but a smile and somebody is going to get rugburns!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Old 02-26-2009, 03:34 PM   #43 (permalink)
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I don't know, once in bet my wife loves me to play with her boobs, both with hands and mouth, however, I know she doesn't like it anywhere else but in bed...if that makes sense.

It really turns her on as foreplay in bed, but it really pisses her off if we anywhere other than bed.
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Old 02-26-2009, 04:14 PM   #44 (permalink)
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I would just say...

"Love me" that's all I want from him. Just to be loved. He's not a rich man, never will be he's in education, so he's one of the most educated poor men out there. He doesn't buy me expensive things, and I don't want him to.

I just want him to love me. Ravage me, sexually, mentally, get inside my mind, my heart, and my body. ;-)

And he does sometimes... but sometimes in the midst of the daily grind, and life being so busy. He, We , both forget to cherish each other.... That is all I want , to be cherished, heart , mind and soul... and body of course! :-) that is just my take on things.
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Old 02-27-2009, 12:05 PM   #45 (permalink)
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word...my wife tells me shes going to bed and gropes me when she is saying it, so i follow her and come to find out, she really is going to bed...doesnt want any funny business....what the hell. i just turned my computer game off and was a level 10 to be with you and you tell me you arent in the mood...i wish women were more blunt in what they want...we are not mind readers ya know.
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