Ladies what would you say?

martino · 02-04-2009, 04:39 PM

What do you wish you could say to your hubby but can't regarding your sex life? cmon now fess up!

Debby · 02-05-2009, 12:12 AM

! Find it somewhere else and leave me alone !

lostluv · 02-05-2009, 07:18 AM

Just because I orgasm occasionally with the right techniques doesn't mean I'm fully enjoying it.

MarkTwain · 02-05-2009, 08:04 AM

Ouch!
I think Martino got more than he bargained for.

okeydokie · 02-05-2009, 08:10 AM

i believe the answer could be "no matter what you do i will never be happy"

onlylonelyone · 02-05-2009, 08:17 AM

lol

okeydokey you are right about that. Sometimes nothing makes us happy. I would say "theres more to me than a nice behind", "all of my body is a playground""

martino · 02-05-2009, 11:55 AM

Ouch, some cold responses. It's your right, i'm just trying to gain insight into the female mind. Well for those of you that WANT to have sex with your man, what do you wish he did better? please tell.......

onlylonelyone · 02-05-2009, 12:14 PM

I would like to be romanced a little more prior to sex. What I mean by romanced is more like sexy remarks here and there throughout the day, compliments, dirty comments, a sexy glance, you get the idea just more flirting. It just lets a woman know she's on your mind all the time, not just when you want some and she's not just the wife, mommy, maide, and cook. It makes you feel like a woman, and a wanted woman at that.

I also think squeezing in quickies is great right before work, or going out to dinner. Quickies can be a lot of fun if done often, lol.....I love them.

Those aren't really hard to talk about, but not something you necessarily want to HAVE to tell your man.

lostluv · 02-05-2009, 04:21 PM

Ok, how's this for less harsh...

Be spontaneous, less predictable

Think outside the box

Learn to read the difference in "types" of sex and the moods that go with each

Brush your teeth before you try to french kiss first thing in the morning (morning breath...yuck)

Any better?

MarkTwain · 02-08-2009, 07:02 AM

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Originally Posted by lostluv

Brush your teeth before you try to french kiss first thing in the morning (morning breath...yuck)

Have you told him?

lostluv · 02-08-2009, 08:24 AM

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Originally Posted by MarkTwain

Have you told him?

Yes, but at least 75 % of the time he forgets.

soulmate · 02-08-2009, 09:46 AM

I have told him "More Often" often enough, so I will repeat the excellent post of "my whole body is a playground".

nascarfan · 02-09-2009, 04:54 PM

Walking by and grabbing my boobs IS NOT foreplay! I wish he was more aggressive in bed.

humpty dumpty · 02-09-2009, 05:02 PM

That what turns me on one day doesnt mean it works the next!!
And when i say im going to bed ...he should be able to read my mind

lol !! and know that i want sex

!! i know i should comunicate a little better !!

revitalizedhusband · 02-10-2009, 08:08 AM

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Originally Posted by humpty dumpty

That what turns me on one day doesnt mean it works the next!!
And when i say im going to bed ...he should be able to read my mind

lol !! and know that i want sex

!! i know i should comunicate a little better !!

Men are simple and not mind readers.

You say "I am going to bed"
To him that translates "I'm tired so don't even try anything"

What you should say is "come screw me", he'll understand then