Lionelhutz

For those of you in a sexless marriage, what if anything do you do to note the Day?

Diolay

Well I think that answers your question..

okeydokie

i wouldnt give my wife the time of day, nevermind acknowledge valentines day. and i get the same treatment back so its a wash

Jeff74

I gave my wife a gift and card which seemed very happy with. I think v day is such a hallmark holiday but I figure it's no big deal to buy her a gift anyway! Since we dont have sex any other days of the year I have no expectations that I would have sex on v day so I am not disappointed because that's just the way our relationship is.
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Runs like Dog

I bought her a big Mylar heart balloon and we went out to lunch.

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studley

Played with my dog and had a half bottle of wine.

Chris Taylor

While in a sexless marriage, I always thought that NOT doing something would just extend the sexless period. So I made sure I did something on that day and guess what? The sexless period just continued.

If you aren't addressing it before Valentines Day, doing something that day isn't going to help.

CandieGirl

I consider my marriage pretty close to sexless; once or twice a month, and problems associated with that!

My H is sick with a bad cold right now, so I knew there'd be no sex on the table...but I bought valentine's cupcakes for the family, and he surprised me with a card and a Pandora charm with his initial (matches the one with my initial). He loves me. We're working on the sexless part. I'm very encouraged.

isla~mama

He mumbled "happy valentine's day" over the phone from work, which I do appreciate, though by this point, any gesture of affection from him (not that they happen much) feels kind of creepy.

Monty4321

I didn't acknowledge valentines day at all -the I knew she wouldn't acknowledge it either. Not sure if she had expected it or not. But I did wish others happy v day.

There's nothing happy neither special on this day for us. She never has expressed appreciation for me.

So on this v day I told her of the news that I will be moving out shortly and separating - more than likely it will lead to divorce. Not what I want but its necessary for me to to get more of a sane mind.

okeydokie

sad to say i am right there with ya

NorCalMan

Exchanged cards and I sent flowers to her at work ... didn't work ... again!

Jeff74

It's all perspective but once or twice a month doesn't sound even close to sexless to me! Now, zero times per year which is what goes on in my relationship is sexless..
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CandieGirl

Some complain about once a week! I'd probably be walking funny if I got it once a week! Limp, limp!

sadhubby

She got the same as me nothing .....never even acknowledge the day not a kiss or a word of love