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View Poll Results: is she telling the truth? or do all women want guys with a big penis?
i'm sure she's telling you the truth, not all woman want a dude with a huge penis
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every woman would prefer if their man were hung like a horse
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it's not the size of your tool, its how you use it
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what i've learned in my years of researching the female species: women are liars
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it goes both ways man; we lust after breasts and butts and they like c*cks
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They say they do but I think a lot of them would be intimidated by a guy with a big penis
I'm a bit larger than average but not porn star huge.. my wife has commented that bc of way I am circumcised, I am somehow hitting just the right spot that other guys weren't hitting in the past. She also likes me to keep going when I'm a little floppy, after I've finished. Somehow that does more for her than when I am in rockstar mode!
So I guess size matters to an extent, but it goes to show that women can have all sorts of quirks and preferences you might never expect.
Sorry I was not clear, but why would you call a cab for a guy who says "faking is dumb, because I won't try to please you further if I think I already am. So fake if you want, but don't blame me after"?
Oh, sorry, misunderstood. I'd call myself the cab to get out (back then when I had the dude get off and call me a cab, I didnt have a car, LOL, long time ago!)
Really...I just can't imagine anyone SAYING something like that in the heat of the moment! Anyways....we move along!
1) does size preference vary during the menstrual cycle (e.g., closer to ovulation, maybe bigger is better, other times not so much)?
2) whenever I hear "it's not how big it is, it's how he uses it", the next question seems like it would be, OK, then, how do you want him to use it?
Whenever I hear this, I automatically think: pencil ****!
Seriously though! I have always found that size differs mostly in length; and it's true, as others have stated, that girth is what really counts.
As for how to use a pencil ****...I'm picturing stirring a coffee with a coffee stick thingie...gets the job done, but using a spoon is slightly more effective.
Whenever I hear this, I automatically think: pencil ****!
Seriously though! I have always found that size differs mostly in length; and it's true, as others have stated, that girth is what really counts.
As for how to use a pencil ****...I'm picturing stirring a coffee with a coffee stick thingie...gets the job done, but using a spoon is slightly more effective.
Exactly! Anytime I hear this, I ask, so you would turn down a more endowed guy that knows how to use it then for a smaller guy that knows how to use it? Given that they are similar in all other aspects. It's irrational to think they would. Well, call me whatever, but i'm picking the curvy chick over the skinny chick every time. size matters!
you have what you have learn to love what you have and use it as best you can.
there always going to be someone smarter,faster,richer,etc.
your wife should love you for who you are as a total package.
not just your package!!
I am what I am I'm popeye the sailor man toot toot!
Well, by the point of marriage, it's too late to use that excuse. We're more on the lines of initial encounters and a woman gets the sensation to throw up when she sees a baby pecker on a full grown man. nothing sexy about that. lol. I always say though, give it a shot. he may be a grower, not a shower.
Its funny how with women, the guy they are with currently is always a rock star and has the biggest/best **** ever. But when they break up, awww man, you were the worst/tiniest thing walking.
As for women harping about why men ask these questions. It sounds exactly the same when you complain about your self diagnosed "short" falls. That's why I don't even ask a woman that question. I just go in and do work. If she's happy, cool, if not, adios. It'll work for someone else.
Penis is to man what breast is to woman. However, Penis is to woman what breast is to man. Think about it.
That is what is truly amazing not for all women but it seems to be the general thought. There current boyfriend or husband is "amazing and satisfies them in so many ways" more so the case with the husband in happy marriages which is understandable however they will say the same thing when just dating a guy. "boyfriend is so good and is fine"
Also why is it every woman insists that she has had big and small? what do they consider big? i have been told i am big before but i am not. I think its a lie or for bragging rights they decide to over estimate and inflate the number of the penis size. In reality a very very small portion of men are "big". Also probably so they can just talk about it and act like they are so experienced and well knowledge/well rounded. So i think more than likely most women think a 7 incher which is not super uncommon but above average is "big" when its really not. In addition i think women lie about how the sex is with there boyfriends with there husbands i do not think they do as much because they are married and in my experience from what i have seen unhappy sex in marriages will often lead to failure of the entire relationship thus if the sex problems are truly a issue they would not likely be in "set" relationship for to long.
Id believe a woman who has slept with a lot of men more than the woman who has had a few or handful of men in regards to what they consider big/average.
I am not what percentage of men actively give women oral or love it its rather small id imagine. Me personally i love oral i could give it daily or several times a day. Over the years with friends though i have heard them complain that they hate eating women out i have heard the same thing since HS/College days when all the boys are together out drinking or something sex topics will come up and all that jazz and so many guys seem to be against oral or hate it or will do it but put no effort in it and will basically just slop on her for a little while than have to pull their penis out to get pleasure.
I think the problem for a vast majority of men is their hedonistic point of view on the world and narcissistic behavior. Become a good kisser and actually want to and love to touch your woman's body or a woman's body all around. Its not just about a penis in a vag. You can suck at oral but if you do it allot and generally try you will get better.
Would any women have problems with receiving oral daily ?
I think the problem for a vast majority of men is their hedonistic point of view on the world and narcissistic behavior. Become a good kisser and actually want to and love to touch your woman's body or a woman's body all around. Its not just about a penis in a vag. You can suck at oral but if you do it allot and generally try you will get better.
I disagree on a number of counts. I think most men at least want to be good lovers and I also think that the number of men who enjoy giving oral sex is comparable or greater to the number of women who like giving it.
There are many men who view sex as purely self-indulgence and there are just as many women who view their role in sex as lying back and waiting to be entertained.
That is what is truly amazing not for all women but it seems to be the general thought. There current boyfriend or husband is "amazing and satisfies them in so many ways" more so the case with the husband in happy marriages which is understandable however they will say the same thing when just dating a guy. "boyfriend is so good and is fine"
Also why is it every woman insists that she has had big and small? what do they consider big? i have been told i am big before but i am not. I think its a lie or for bragging rights they decide to over estimate and inflate the number of the penis size. In reality a very very small portion of men are "big". Also probably so they can just talk about it and act like they are so experienced and well knowledge/well rounded. So i think more than likely most women think a 7 incher which is not super uncommon but above average is "big" when its really not. In addition i think women lie about how the sex is with there boyfriends with there husbands i do not think they do as much because they are married and in my experience from what i have seen unhappy sex in marriages will often lead to failure of the entire relationship thus if the sex problems are truly a issue they would not likely be in "set" relationship for to long.
Id believe a woman who has slept with a lot of men more than the woman who has had a few or handful of men in regards to what they consider big/average.
This is particularly true. Most women are bad judges of size. Ladies, if you're of average build, look down at your forearm, that should be roughly 9 to 10 inches, and your fist would be close to the size of the head. If you've never had that, you ain't never had big darlin'.
This is also another reason why I don't buy into porn obsessions that people complain about. Most people of sound mind will know that the porn stars they see are usually 8", yeah you have a very, very small amount above the 9" range. And 10" up, well, that's probably a one hand count. It's all about angles. And to add to the effect, most of the women are tiny. so when you have such a contrast, it will give the illusion of this maaaaaassive member.
I don't really think anyone buys into the idea of foot long penis' running rampant all over the industry. And I mean this for the men that watch porn and obsess over their inadequacies.
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