Re: Help - almost sexless marriage
judydarling, since you did have a good sex life before your tragic loss I think there is hope for you. Obviously the loss triggered something in your husband. Are you certain he's not being unfaithful? Anecdotally, it's my impression that affairs can stem from tragedy. The only thing I can suggest is that you snoop on his computer and phone activities-- at least then you'll know if he's even looking at porn. If he is looking, at least he has some sort of sex drive left.
If he's jumping out of bed to the shower with an erection each morning, he's masturbating in there, is my guess.