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Old 02-24-2012, 06:55 PM   #16 (permalink)
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I think that the female body is so beautiful. Why not celebrate that. Nice lingerie in bed is a perfect way to accentuate the body and add intimacy to a relationship.
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I have never found any lingerie that is comfortable to sleep in. But if you wanted to get your foot in the door, you could always go buy yourself a nice teddy and some stalkings and sleep in it to test drive LOL.

asking her to occasionally sleep nude is one thing, asking her to go to bed in lingerie is another. Straps dig in, buckles hurt, anytime you try to turn or roll over it gets all jumbled. Not my idea of a good sleep.
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Since I just posted this in another thread, if you will allow me to do so, I would like to just link to the thread where I told what my wife wears to bed, and why:

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Just my panties and a tank top
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Old 02-24-2012, 08:47 PM   #19 (permalink)
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Sleeping naked is good for intimacy, and it's good for one's health too.

We don't have children, so we not only sleep together naked, we also run around in the apartment naked when the weather is warm.

Because I am naked in front of my husband most of the time, it forces me to keep my body in shape.

Sometimes I wonder why girls don't want to be naked in front of their husbands. Shy or because she is concerned about her body? When I get a little bit out of shape, I tend to cover my body.
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I don't sleep naked often. With a 3 year old, we have to be ready to pop up in the night. Hubs sleeps mostly in boxers. He says he doesn't want to get caught in the nude in case there's an emergency LOL. But he has such a sexy body. rawr.
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Sometimes she wears this..



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Old 02-24-2012, 09:24 PM   #22 (permalink)
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I don't sleep naked often. With a 3 year old, we have to be ready to pop up in the night. Hubs sleeps mostly in boxers. He says he doesn't want to get caught in the nude in case there's an emergency LOL. But he has such a sexy body. rawr.
Don`t laugh, I beat the crap out of an intruder in our house at 4 in the morning buck naked.

Fighting nude is not something I EVER want to do again.
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Old 02-24-2012, 10:14 PM   #23 (permalink)
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When me and the H were dating and had no kids it was naked all the time, and I loved sleeping next to him like that After kids I just can't do it. We have a 4 year old and an 8 year old and there was 1 time when my daughter was 3 that I was wearing a tank top to bed, she didn't see the straps, and she went to church that morning and said she saw mommy in bed with no shirt on lol it was just embarrassing, for once I was completely speechless.

I usually go to bed in pj pants and shirt in the winter and shorts/underwear and a tank top in the summer. But my H knows those things will come off ASAP if he wants some lol
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I'd love for her to come to bed nekked every night but she only usually does that to signal that it is open season for sex. Most of the time it is panties and a bra. When she's pissed its sweatpants and tshirt. I am always nekked.
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This has got to be a cultural thing....

We both NEVER sleep in nude unless we had sex and are just way too tired. But that hardly happens. Both of us would put our UNSEXY PJ back on lest we CATCH COLDS. We were both raised to believe if it's cold you will catch a cold, and guess what...we really do that. It's pretty absurd. BTW, lingerie is not for SLEEPING. No comfort.

Having said that, I am attacking my husband more viciously now so he can take off that stupid POLO WITH BUTTONS (his version of PJ) during sex. It feels ridiculous. I insist on being completely naked DURING and what he does AFTER does not bother me.

Also, IMHO,it's more fun to peel someone off if you have something on to begin with.
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This has got to be a cultural thing....

We both NEVER sleep in nude unless we had sex and are just way too tired. But that hardly happens. Both of us would put our UNSEXY PJ back on lest we CATCH COLDS. We were both raised to believe if it's cold you will catch a cold, and guess what...we really do that. It's pretty absurd. BTW, lingerie is not for SLEEPING. No comfort.

Having said that, I am attacking my husband more viciously now so he can take off that stupid POLO WITH BUTTONS (his version of PJ) during sex. It feels ridiculous. I insist on being completely naked DURING and what he does AFTER does not bother me.

Also, IMHO,it's more fun to peel someone off if you have something on to begin with.
wife sleeps inn bra. underwear.sweats.and a flannel shirt...yea real sexy
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This has got to be a cultural thing....

We both NEVER sleep in nude unless we had sex and are just way too tired. But that hardly happens. Both of us would put our UNSEXY PJ back on lest we CATCH COLDS. We were both raised to believe if it's cold you will catch a cold, and guess what...we really do that. It's pretty absurd. BTW, lingerie is not for SLEEPING. No comfort.

Having said that, I am attacking my husband more viciously now so he can take off that stupid POLO WITH BUTTONS (his version of PJ) during sex. It feels ridiculous. I insist on being completely naked DURING and what he does AFTER does not bother me.

Also, IMHO,it's more fun to peel someone off if you have something on to begin with.
Just so you know you don't catch a cold from being cold. All colds are caused by a virus.
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Just so you know you don't catch a cold from being cold. All colds are caused by a virus.
I think she knows. That's why she said it was absurd but everyone's mother always told them that and ingrained habits are hard to break even when you know they're silly
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We have half a dozen kids, sometimes a slew on the weekends running around our house, but we have a locked door, don't understand the responses about kids at all ...(if you have a lock & your windows are closed)...

..... After we take a bath together , I generally put on some lingerie....but when I approach the bed...It all falls to the floor....he is completely in the buff too, wouldn't have it any other way, if /when he comes to bed with some underwear , I take them off!

In the past though, I would wear these boring "little house on the Praire" night gowns, but I never wore underwear to bed... my Grandmother told me when I was a teen, this is healthy for females-to have a little air time down there- after wearing clothes all day. She never did tell me to have sex every night though- I think My Grandma left some things out.
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Old 02-25-2012, 05:35 PM   #30 (permalink)
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Like other in here, we're empty nesters as well. Clothig is not really an issue. Weather dictates what we wear.

Usually at night, I wear nothing when warm, tee shirt when cold. Mrs usually wears undies when warm and the old catholic contraceptive when cold or if I'm in the dog house.

Day time, usually spend the day naked when warm or a gown, track suit when cold. Once again, depends on how cold. Mrs is usually topless with just a pair of undies or shirt or gown depending on how cold.
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