strange_bound

Update- my wife has done three counseling sessions now, and she seems semi-depressed. A few days back I don't know why, I initiated sex again. She gave me a long, hot kiss which felt very forced and desperate at the same time. Overall, "desperate" would be the key word here.

Of course I didn't enjoy it- it almost broke my heart. At the same time, I was afraid that all this desperation would wear off once we have children. What do you think is going on in her head?

FYI, we didn't have sex, but she was having her period so that's fine by me.

strange_bound

@Chelle D thanks for your suggestion. I have tried all that in the past - talking about sex or talking around sex; asking her about her fantasies; sharing my fantasies; etc. I have been turned down so many times by her that honestly I think the initiative should come from her end. Anyway let's see how the counseling works out.