diwali123

We're looking at houses, found one where there's an extra area off the master bedroom. I want this house. It's going to be my meditation/masturbation room.
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Enchantment

How does your husband feel about you masturbating?

You mentioned in a previous post that he was married before to someone who made a big deal about not getting an O, yes?

Do you think he could feel the same kind of pressure or the same way he did with his ex now with you and that may be why he is sometimes reluctant (you know - he again has a wife who pressures him and he feels bad when he can't comply)?

I just think it needs to be kept low-key and not in his face. Would he ever be willing to just hold you and be with you while you do your thing?

Best wishes.

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diwali123

I come at the drop of a hat with him. It's just that we went from
Every other day to once a week, and I don't see that he's that concerned about it. He's not as adventurous or creative as he used to be. He was multi-orgasmic one time when we were together. We would have sex many times a day, he'd go down on me. Now it's once a week, no oral, missionary, same routine. He used to talk during sex now he's silent. Im not willing to leave over this, but I'm not going to walk around with my genitals engorged wanting to have an orhasm because he's not in the mood. You can't have it both ways. I'm not going to tell him or make a big deal about it and hopefully we can deal with this in counseling. Everything else in our relationship is great.
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