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My wife feels like I violated and disrespected her because I woke her up in the morning by gently touching her breast. She got mad and stormed out of the room. She told me she feels like I have raped her. We have been married almost 3 years and she doesn't like sex. Although she will do it for me once every week or two.
Is this feeling normal?
She has woken me up once before in the middle of the night by playing with me and I enjoyed it. So I can't understand why she is feeling so violated.
Oh, man! All the times I've touched my breasts late at night while she was sleep and most of the time, she justs slaps my hands and rolls over. I too think she just over reacted, especially if you didn't have intercourse. Perhaps she had something on her mind or a bad dream. My wife had a bad dream and gave me attitude all day because of what I did in her dream.
Oh, man! All the times I've touched my breasts late at night while she was sleep and most of the time, she justs slaps my hands and rolls over. I too think she just over reacted, especially if you didn't have intercourse. Perhaps she had something on her mind or a bad dream. My wife had a bad dream and gave me attitude all day because of what I did in her dream.
Possibly she might have had some sexual abuse , or a fear of men or rape, in her puberty , in her girl-woman stage..a disliking to sex owing to a kind of "female is inferior in sex : a complex syndrome.."
her problem...
doubt,fear and the frustrations , all related to her body, her mind over some kind of OCB in sexuality...
Nope this is not normal. One of the main reasons that married people sleep in the same bed is to be physcially close and to be able to do things like that. Happy couples love being touched by each other.
Your wife has an issue about something. She's pretty upset with you.
Now that she has brought up the "rape" word I'd be very careful around her. You need to talk to her and explain to her how serious using that word is. That if she feels that way then you are afraid to be next her to as she could take anything as rape.
Personally I think that she would sleep in another bed until the two of you have resolved whatever the issue is. Don't be surprised if she brings charges against you down the road.
The real question Iis why is she as a married woman in a committed relationship rejecting her husband in what is a normal touch between lovers? Posted via Mobile Device
the way i look at it, she could be setting you up for rape charges after you actually have sex. your wife has some serious issues and i hope you aren't on the recieving end of something bad.
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