03-04-2012, 12:41 PM
Join Date: Feb 2012
| | Re: I like sex....not with hubby
I don't want to seem shallow or not being supportive but I want to enjoy it as much as he does. He doesn't say he is unhappy about his appearance. He would like to lose the weight but its not a priority
Please forgive me, but he's lying.
I'm a big dude and I have struggled with my weight all my life. For the most part I've been able to maintain my weight in the 250 range, but when you get 400 lbs?.....that's pure misery Cogo.
High blood pressure is the number one killer of obese people, and if he does not take steps to get his weight down, the sex issue will be a moot point. The man of your life, your lover and best friend, will die, or at the very least stroke out and spend the rest of his life as a wheelchair conductor. Is that what you want?