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Your comment is so interesting, Phantom. There is a kind of double speak - I'm trying to learn to be straightforward, but on the other hand, not critical. yowsers. Fine line to walk. and I feel pretty awkward about it, too.
Yes I am aware of the double standard that my comment appears to be. It is and it isn't. Men tend to be less vocal and communicate in other ways. Maybe that's leftover from the grunting caveman days but its true. When we actually open our mouths and use words, women need to listen and not jump on us for trying to do something we're not wired for and vice versa. Posted via Mobile Device
My definition of sexless is not about a number but fulfillment. If sex is too infrequent and the sex you do have doesn't satisfy, then I would call that "sexless". I'm sure some would say its no sex at all, but to the person unfulfilled, its the same as no sex. Posted via Mobile Device
For the poster who asked if once per month is sexless...
My husband is paying attention at the moment, but that's probably because I broke down in tears over it all the other night...I am not a crier at all. So when I do, he knows it must really be something.
I'm going to try and keep him busy for at least a week, hopefully more. See if we can fix this crappy problem of ours. Everything else is more or less good (finally!).
[QUOTE=CandieGirl;622128]My husband is paying attention at the moment, but that's probably because I broke down in tears over it all the other night...I am not a crier at all. So when I do, he knows it must really be something.
I'm going to try and keep him busy for at least a week, hopefully more. See if we can fix this crappy problem of ours. Everything else is more or less good (finally!).[/Q
My husband is paying attention at the moment, but that's probably because I broke down in tears over it all the other night...I am not a crier at all. So when I do, he knows it must really be something.
I'm going to try and keep him busy for at least a week, hopefully more. See if we can fix this crappy problem of ours. Everything else is more or less good (finally!).
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My husband is paying attention at the moment, but that's probably because I broke down in tears over it all the other night...I am not a crier at all. So when I do, he knows it must really be something.
I'm going to try and keep him busy for at least a week, hopefully more. See if we can fix this crappy problem of ours. Everything else is more or less good (finally!).[/Q
What is the problem?
My husband is low drive to the point of making me insane.
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